Did she break up with me or was it me?

Question

A few weeks ago she asked whether I was happy with her and if I wanted to continue the realtionship given she felt I still liked my ex. Two weeks later I broke up with her saying that I didnt think there was any future for us. Not because of the ex, but because we were not the right match.

She agreed. A few weeks after when I called her she asked that I stop contacting her because she had found the the emails I had sent to my ex during our relationship. I had written how much I loved my ex and thought of her and how little my current gf meant.

I was definetly embarrased, but still dont think we belong together.

My question really is....was it me or did she break up..or was it mutual?

Answer 1

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It sounds like you both lost interest in each other and just mutually separated...

Despite the fact the you were the one who proposed the break up in the end, it was clear that she had known what was going on and had lost her feelings for you beforehand (a few weeks ago).

It is clear that your ex is somewhere involved, but I could tell that you did treasure the relationship with this girl you broke up.

Well, good luck, and move on, or maybe find your ex and tell her how much you want her back? ;)

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Answer 2

You both knew it wasn't meant to be. That's why she questioned your feelings and you did the same by contacting your ex. So you both took part in the break up.