I need some advice on the physical side of my relationship?

Question

Both myself and my boyfriend are virgins, i know what you're thinking! , but were both only 18 and both shy people when it comes to this sort of stuff. but how do i get around to "doing the deed" as it were, with him? serious answers please.

Answer 1

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Well..time does everything. Give your relationship a bit more time. Let your self be mentally more comfortable with each other,physicality will come on its own. First of all,remove that SHY factor from your relationship. Try talking to him on bold topics like sex and there is no harm in taking the first step urself. All d best.

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Asker's Comment:

um, thanks for this you really hit the nail on the head with this answer! the bold topics thing is something im definately going to do, well, at least try to do, and to be less uncomfortable about it thnx! ^^

Answer 2

if you have to ask, ur not ready yet, so don't

Answer 3

Beer

Answer 4

I wouldn't know. 19 and still a virgin

Answer 5

Tell him you are ready if he is not. Question his sexuality.
Or respect the fact that he wants to make it perfect.
A few men would like to admit it but they are hopeless romatics.

Answer 6

Take it really slow.
Feel each other out and savor each others bodies. Don't rush.
As far as initiating it, I guess just set up a date and have fun. :]

Answer 7

don't worry to much about it... things will happen naturally, there's no need to speed up things!... a little bit of alcohol could indeed help

Answer 8

let him walk in on you "accidentaly changing" and ride him like a russian racehorse. im not joking. its every guys fantasy to walk in on a half naked girl, get the other half of her naked, and bang her from here to hong kong.

Answer 9

if u have already told each other that u love one another. then say (his name) i really do love u. and well i think i am ready. then see wat he says

or just kiss really passionately, and start taking each others clothes off. just tops. keep kissing. then feel him up a bit. like put ur hand down his trousers. he will probably start feelin u up to. then say shall we do it?

se wat works

Answer 10

let ur bf make the move

Answer 11

I would tell you don't do it yet. But will you listen? Anyone can do it but make sure who you do it
with the person you love. You say "doing the deed" like if it just something you have to do.But
its not.This is not a term paper that you have to turn in.A cleaning chore you need to do ,so you can go out.This is your life and your virginity.Please do some soul searching and follow your
heart. But if its the case that you do the deed have a form of protection ready.I can't say how to get
around to the deed. It is a feeling that comes on natural when your hormones and his meet.
I did the deed @ 18 and I got a present " a baby" and we had protection.