What do i have to do to get this girl?

Question

Well i'm not really handsome.. And i don't have any talents except for drawing, i've liked this girl for 3 years now and this is the last year of school so if i don't ask her quick i'll never get her. ( even if i ask her i'm sure she'll say no...) but i don't have the GUTS! It's really hard loving someone and knowing you'll probably never get her or any other girl, Every time i hear her name i get so excited and i feel amazing but it hurts too. every time i see her i want to look at her forever but that hurts too much too, Her voice soothes me and excites me but hearing her voice is also painful.

What should i do? i can't go on like this and if this year is over i'll probably never see her again and i will be haunted by regret for my whole life and probably live my life and die alone aswell..
Help please?

Additional Details

BTW she's in my class and i see her alot and i kind of know her i'm not shy when i'm talking to her and she talks to me alot and i make her laugh a lot but i think she just sees me as "a funny classmate" she pays more attention to my friend :P i don't blame him plus he's already got a girlfriend. the thing is IF i ever get her we're very different. Oh and i'm black and a refugee but i don't think she's a racist the thing is maybe she doesnt like black guys?? i can't just become white -.- tough i can lose some weight easily and no i don't have greasy hair! will this increase my chance? also i don't have frizzy hair like most black people

PLUS she likes mainstream music hiphop, techno and other stuff MTV airs but i don't i love The Beatles, Oasis, Coldplay, The Cat Empire and the White stripes, I dont have a job yet so i dont have a lot of money and i could NOT ever let a girl pay for a night in the city that's just PLAIN WRONG! uhm me and my friends are kind of the annoying kids in class and i'll admit we're not really mature.... Do girls hate immature guys because i just like to have fun and don't want to be too serious..

Answer 1

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For me, good looks and talents don't play that big of a role in picking a guy, but it depends. If you have greasy hair, that's a no-no. Just advice.

Have you ever talked to this girl at all? If you have classes with her, sit by her, say "Hey, do you know what we're doing today in class...?" just to spark up a conversation. If you don't have classes with her, you'll have to work harder. Play around, drop a book in front of her, go by a bubbler near her locker. (Bubbler is water fountain BTW [;)

Good luck!

p.s; You have to gradually work your way up. If you've already made small talk, then ask her what her plans are for the weekend.

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Thanks helped alot tough i doubt it will boost my confidence.. I'm a big wus

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Just go up to her and talk to her, get to know her. Don't be intrusive though. As long as you're a nice guy with a good heart, looks and talents won't matter.