Do I have a right to be upset?

Question

Ok my friend Bob(not the real name) would hang out with me everyday always talk to me,be my partner for everything,and always sit with me at lunch,and have me wait for her or her wait for me at the locker...Then last week she started hanging out with my other friend Rob and they both started excluding and ignoring me Bob did nothing she used to do she was always with Rob and then when she knew I wanted to be her partner she looked at me but when Rob went over to her she is like ROB!! then only after she saw I was upset she comes over and is like I will be your partner next time (she lied) and she only said that cuz i was upset...Shes like are you mad I told her y she just goes off...she texted me im sorry like 5 times..I said I forgive you..sort of I cant tell if she actually even cares that she ignored me or she is only sorry i am mad! So...Do you think I am wrong to be mad? I came home and cried..I am more upset/sad then mad

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she says she still wants to be my friend, But...I am the type of person that it will take a long time to consider her my friend again

Answer 1

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Dude, I think you have every right to be upset.
If the facts are that she only thinks of you as a friend, and sees Rob as something more, then that may be an argument in her defence.

But nevertheless, excluding you and totally ditching you is wrong in my opinion, and she's only lying to you so she doesn't have to feel guilty about this herself.

Just confront her, she's no good for you man.

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She is my friend again...But I could tell she was sincerely sorry...she sent me 20 texts each filled with sorries...Now I hate Rob she was talkin bout me like the ***** she is!!

Answer 2

You have the right to be sad, but not the right to be mad. You lost a close friend, anyone would be sad about that. Being mad at a person for making a decision, no you really don't have that right. I know that it hurts and you feel as though she or he left you out in the cold. Keep your head up and find another friend that's going to be there for you. Good Luck!

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Answer 3

ugh, i effing hate people like that. i'd be so pissed. i wouldn't even give them a second chance. one time i did give someone a second chance and they did it again, in fact i was left in a town 2 hours away from my home because that person wanted to screw some guy she had just met. don't put up with that crap!