My mom called me fat?!?!?

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well ya she did...im 13 and 5'3 and 147....i am a ballet dancer so i have alot of muscle...i no im not the skinnest person but am i really fat?...what should i do to not let it get to me....

and the other day my friend yelled to get my attention "hey fatty" ..she said she was kiding but idk....

im not like FAT...i have hips too btw..so im curvy

Answer 1

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No you're not...and it sucks...I've been called fat by family all my life. I'm pretty much overweight now but I certainly was not when I was 13, which was pretty much your size. I danced hula and did karate so I had to be in shape. But I enjoyed eating too. People say mean things because they are insecure with themselves. Sorry but there is a difference of being fat and being unhealthy. At the moment I am both but if you are working out and eating right and you are feeling fine, don't worry about being fat. FYI, I think that's awesome that you are a dancer...keep it up.

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thank u so much! i feel alot better...u r awesome

Answer 2

your deff not fat im the same body type. u have a nice body just keep yourself fitt

Answer 3

drop down to 115

Answer 4

I am the same height as you and when I was 13 I was around the same weight. I am now 22 and have had 2 kids and weigh 215 lbs... Now that's fat, lol... I think people in our height rage are supposed to be in between 125 and 135, but that does not mean that you are fat. Curvy is not fat. And most guys actually like curvy girls better. Your mom might be concerned because sometimes when you do certain things like ballet or gymnastic people want you at a certain weight but Im sure your mom doesn't really think your fat because your not, and Your friend is probably just jealous. But I would love to be that thin again, so NO, you are NOT fat...

Answer 5

okay fat is when you sit down and have thousands of rolls...
to me since your a ballet dancer you must not have much or any rolls at all since u gotta do all them stretches. so just tell her that made you feel soo DOWN and as for your friend i dont think thats a real friend joking or not thats mean,
Curves are Pretty.

Answer 6

your not fat! im just like u except i have a big butt too. im sure your mom didn't mean to call u fat