Army boyfriend has gone away :( need help?

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My boyfriend is in the army and has gone on a bush trip for 3 weeks.. i haven't heard from him in a week... i know it sounds so pathetic... We used to do long distance for quite a while and then he moved back and we have been living together ever since, so i'm not used to the no contact...we have discussed getting married alot and kids etc..we have been together for 3 yrs and we currently live together... i'm scared he's forgotten about me though or will not feel the same when he gets back... Has anyone else been in this long distance situation? any military gf's or wives? please help me i don't want to be like this..

What should i do so i'm not so miserable...

Thank Y'all in advance xx

Answer 1

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If he's on a bush trip he can't call you, he's prolly missing u lots but if he cant call he cant call.

My last bf was in Afghanistan for 7 months and sometimes I went weeks without hearing from him.

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all of the answers were so positive and helped alot - but this stood out to me the most as it was the most blatant, that i came back down to earth away from all of my lingering thoughts... which is definitely what i needed, thank you :)

Answer 2

aww he hasnt forgotten you, but hes probably really busy. my bf went to iraq right after we met and weve been together 3 yrs. his next deployment is next september. i was miserable. i re-decorated our home and read a lot of books and watched tv when he was gone. but he hasnt forgotten you, hes just busy. hold out for him. its ok :)

Answer 3

He ran, theres no doubt about it. He's long gone. Probably forgot your name and has moved on. That's the only logical explanation.

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Trust me I'm a doctor

Answer 4

been there, done that ,aint goin back. but he wasnt in the miltary just that he lived far away.but sounds like u love each other so think positive and not on all the negatives

Answer 5

You should of marry him before he left