My friend is putting guys before me (7th grade)?

Question

ok my friends has been obsessing over guys lately..
ever since she's been playing volleyball with them
she's been falling down and injuring herself on purpose
just to get attention and to have guys help her up so that they can hold her hand
and also she cries whenever she doesn't get a lot of attention
so that the guys will notice her and treat her like a princess or something
also she once told this guy that i liked him because she likes him too
and she told him i liked him just so that he could talk to her more
i mean what kind of friend tells someone else my secrets????
she promised not to tell ANYONE. but she told him just to get his attention.
all the guys who play volleyball always treat her like a princess now
and she just ignores me.
like after i was playing vball with her and the guys
the bell rang and then i was gonna give her something
but she just ignored me every single time i called her.
i was like 10 feet away from her!
and then all her guy friends just dragged her away
and they were laughing at me and stuff. :(
wat should i dooo?? she's being such a jerkk.

Answer 1

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You don't deserve someone like that. I lost my best friend of 3 years to her boyfriend, now we don't speak anymore. I know it sounds upsetting, and it hurt at first, but I'm over it, and her. I realized that she's not a good friend, and that I'm glad she ditched me. It's only made me stronger. Try to meet up with other people, or make new friends. I know it's easier said than done, but once your in there, your mind will be off of her and you can move on. If you want to talk to her about it, try, if not, try to move on.
I wish you the best of luck!

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Me, lost friend of 3 years over a boy.

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thanks a lot :)

Answer 2

ok, come one now, thats just bogus, dudette!!! get on her about that, stat!

Answer 3

thats not right

Answer 4

well she is not really your friend if she is going that far set her straight tell her not to do all this things because unlike her you are a true friend

Answer 5

ok take a deep breath look at that age half the girls are boy crazy. she doesnt mean it but shes thinking with her hormones not her brain in a year shell be back youll have to wait for her if you think its worth it

Answer 6

its simple; stop being friends with her. shes an attention seeking loser with low self esteem

Answer 7

easy dont tell her anything anymore and ppl do chose guys over friendship trust me i had this friend shes now my enemy she chose a guy between us and its not that but she lied to me and the important thing of a friendship is the truth so find another friend and forget about her. we both deserve better than that friend who chooses guy over friendship

Answer 8

are you sure you're not jealous of you're friend?

Answer 9

she's not a good friend trust me i know.
it sounds like she's also making fun of you behind your back.
that's never nice.
and between me and you she sounds like a ****.
she'll probably grow up and become a heroin addicted prostitute or a coke whore.
and she'll rely on you for clean needles and stuff.
get new friends. you sound like you deserve them.
(besides someone will probably think something when you ask for needles every day)

Answer 10

well, since shes ur friend and all, im guessing u do care about her.
but that chick has crossed the line!
and if she was like ur best friend then i would just go up to her and say,
"okay, u know wat?! i noe ur like a boy crazy-girl but if u keep putting them in front of me then our friendship is OVER!"
and if shes just one of those "friends" then just ignore her.
true friends should always know what up in the friendships and if shes not getting the message that shes the one messing it up, just forget about it.