Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?

Question

I am friends with this guy that I've hung out with 4 or 5 times. I have a crush on him and it seems like he is always flirting with me. The first time I met him it was cold and he put his arms around me and warmed me up. It seems like every time I see him he hugs me, lays on me ( jokingly), calls me his lover, etc. He gave me his number (but didnt ask for mine) and I texted him so he would have my number. We had a short conversation, only 8 or 9 texts long. I didnt hear from him for about 3 days, and then he texted me last night saying "hey cutie". We had a good 30 minute conversation, and then he just stopped replying. So, does it seem like he is flirting or looking for something more?

Answer 1

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he likes you :)

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i sure hope so :)

Answer 2

yes, he's flirting.

Answer 3

This is so obvious that I'm not even going to give you a proper answer.

Answer 4

flirting, move on

Answer 5

he probably does like you he probably waited 3 days to text you again because he didnt want you to think he was annoying or something but yea from what im hearing somebody has a crush on you

Answer 6

hes definately flirting with you

Answer 7

i have the same problem to he flirts with me and we text and he hugs me kisses me but idk but i really like him and he has me so confused

Answer 8

From what you described he definitely is flirting. However, if he wants something more than just flirting that still needs to be determined.

Answer 9

** Romantic fantasy spoilers below **

I've been through this a billion times. What you have is a player. A player is selfish and wants nothing else but the gratification of having 'conquered' you. Once he conquers you he will move on. You need to ask yourself if you want a relationship with this type of man. They don't make good fathers and are unfaithful husbands. If you do, here's the strategy:

(1) Become good friends
(2) Always look beautiful and alluring in his presence
(3) Treat him well and be there for him whenever he needs you
(4) Never EVER sleep with him
(5) Sleep with him only when your objective is met (serious relationship, marriage, etc.)

Ever woman can learn a thing or two from Anne Boleyn. If you approach him without using your head you will get taken for a ride.

Answer 10

Sounds like he is just flirting. If he wanted to ask you out, he would have. Also, stop texting, so much can be missed in a text or read wrong, its just not worth it.

Besides, he gave you his number and didn't ask for yours. He's not interested in more than being friends. And yes, guys flirt with girls that are "just friends" too.