So i have this friend and sometimes she can be a *****. please help.?

Question

i like this guy. ever since i told my friend how much i like him, she flirts with him right in front of my face and then brags about how much they talk and how good friends they are. the first time i told her that she kept flirting with him in front of me, she told me she would stop. it got to the fourth time i was telling her and she said she would stop talking to him altogether because she wanted to prove to me that she was a better friend. i told her it was her last chance. its now at the sixth time and ive had enough. she started telling me how her and my crush started talking on the phone heaps and texting and stuff and that he asked her out and she was just rubbing it in my face. i got really angry. do you think i was right to get angry at her? i recently talked to the guy i like and he told me everything that she said was pretty much ******** besides he called her for half an hour once to find out my best friends phone number because they are like brother and sister blah blah. also i recently talked to my friend (the *****)'s ex best friend and she told me that my friend had done the exact same thing to her boyfriend. how do we show her what she is doing? we have both tried telling her multiple amounts of times but she just says that we dont make sense. so any ideas on how we can make her stop and show her how much damage she is doing? or should we just let it go and let karma get her? please help.

Answer 1

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Sweetie ... do you know what the definition of 'insanity' is? It's doing the same thing over and over, only expecting a different result. Fourth time? Sixth time?? WHY - sincerely, ok ... why would you think that the sixth time would be any different from the first, or the second, or the third, fourth or fifth?

This is what you have to do: NOTHING. Have NOTHING to do with her ever again.

If she calls, answer it and hang up immediately - don't even say 'hello'. If she texts you, delete it without even looking at it. Whenever you're in her presence, ignore her utterly, or just walk away. When she speaks to you, look at her and then go back to what you were doing.

I G N O R E HER !!!!!!!

Basically, you have to fire her, but telling her that she's fired will do you no good because she'll find a way to twist it around.

Your best course is just having nothing to do with her. Don't let it go - let HER go, and trust me when I tell you that Karma WILL get her.

In all sincerity ... people like this are toxic. They serve no purpose but to cause discord and chaos. Why would you want her near you ever again?

Just move on and be happy.

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Asker's Comment:

was great. really made me think and made me realise what to do.

Answer 2

what i would do:
i would pulll her away when shes talking to him, and say what the hell !

Answer 3

you could get the guy to go talk to her with you there, so she is kinda cornered.