I have messed this guy around so much, how can I just get over him and leave him alone?

Question

So I really like this guy. I think he likes me. He asked me out and I said no and I dont even know why. He asked me especially to come to his party and I said I was going but I never turned up and never told him and my friends told me he spent the whole night asking where I was. I heard he was interested in some other girl so I was really mean to this girl so she would stay away. I keep messing him around like this and I dont mean to be so cruel, but I dont know whats wrong with me. I like him so much that I cant seem to leave him alone. Am I insane?

Answer 1

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no!
your not ha your a girl who just natrally likes to play hard to get and thats not bad for you to do at all!
ha i had a friend that liked me alot and i liked him but somthing just made me feel like i wanted him to want even more before i was ready and i thught I was insane but your just a girl its fine :]

just think it through on what you really want :D

good luck :D
-sarah

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thankyou =)!

Answer 2

lol, u are a lil different in the head, u like him, but said no? now u be mean to some other girl? y not just tell him

Answer 3

You're probably not ready and don't want others to take him before you feel comfortable with letting him in.

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Answer 4

umm, no. im pretty sure it happens to everyone. ur just so used to him being interested in you that you dont want him to go away, even though u dont like him. dont worry, it"ll go away=)

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me

Answer 5

maybe you are just hesitant and shy. you like him you should go out with him, but its not fair to keep other girls away

Answer 6

Insane is a poor descriptor as far as semantics go.

You're definitely insecure. You can fix this situation by coming clean to him and explaining the situation to him like you did to us and perhaps you can agree to avoid each other.

Or maybe he'll forgive you. I don't know. The best you can do is be honest, everything else is out of your control.

Answer 7

wow your a *****.... is that the new way of getting a boyfriend... YA THATS ******* IT HOLY **** U JUST DISCOVER THE WAY OF GETTING EVERY GUY IN THE ******* WORLD

for treating him like that you dont deserve him and it would be better if you let him go with that other girl because he has probly lost all interest in you because you rejected him twice so hes over it and now moved on to the next best thing