Help! Boy trouble! Or maybe it's me..?

Question

Okay,here's the deal. Whenever I like a guy,I don't want him to right away (if at all), so I act uninterested even when he shows interest.It's childish but it's a defense mechanism for me. So there's this guy I really like a lot and I've given him the cold shoulder, even when I tried to show interest (I'm messed up,I know). I want to know if there's a way for me to fix the damage,start over maybe. The only method that I haven't tried is telling him flat out,which I cannot (will not) do, especially since I think he make have lost some interest.

If anyone has any USEFUL advice,strategies,etc., I'd greatly appreciate them

Answer 1

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When he looks at you, look back and give him a smile. And if you two are talking, laugh if he makes a joke, even if it's not funny. Spending time together will easily fix damage caused earlier and pave the way for a good relationship.

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This worked like a charm..Thanks!!