My ex threatened to files charges against me with my human resources department?

Question

I dated her for 8 months and I broke the relationship up several months ago. She was fine with it and never came after me and didn't make a big deal at all at work. (We work in the same company, but in diff building, so we dont work together).

I tried to be friends and would show up to say hi every so often. I'd ask her for lunch, but she declined.

She never really reciprocated and once I asked for lunch again...she finally said no and asked for me to stop. She told me she had found emails that I had sent to my ex during the relationsh (true) and had no interest in pursuing any kind of relationship with me.

She threatened to go to the human resources department if I insisted.

I think i made the situation worse by trying to be nice. Am I missing something?

Answer 1

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Yes, you're missing the point. STOP> Don't speak to her. Don't go near her. If you do, you're asking for a trip through the unemployment line with a 'dum*ss" sticker on your paperwork.

It's over dude,"Next". Look up ethics while you're waiting.

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