Is this ok revenge for my bf? What to do?!?

Question

Today i missed my flight and had to spend $150 for a ticket tmrw. It was absolutely my bf's fault I missed it. He knows it.

Earlier today I splurged on sexy lingerie and outfits to wear for him. I have to return it bc now I can't afford it(since I had to spend $150+ on the ticket). Should I take a pic of it on--not showing my face--and send it to him saying "u caused urself to miss out on this..."

I'm really upset I'm out like $170 bucks(now can't pay my electric bill) bc my bf wanted to have sex before taking me to the airport. Once I saw the time I was anxious and not enjoying it but he had to be selfish & come....ugh I'm sooooooooo mad at him n feel like he should pay me the $150

how can I get back at him?

Answer 1

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Sounds like he owes you for that sex. Next time your having sex, make it good wear some lingerie do something that will really turn him on. Make sure he is into it and feeling good then after you start having sex right before he cums get up and walk off... when he asks what the **** just look at him and say you're too stressed for sex because you have this light bill that needs to be payed. If you could only get that light bill payed you could finish what you started lol. Trust me it will **** him off real good and he will get the point, chances are he will be so worked up he might even offer to pay the bill just to get you back to bed.

the two people above me are wrong.... there is a difference between revenge that is out of spite and revenge for fun to get your point across. Trust me if you ignore it he will think its ok to do whatever he wants and sit and laugh about the time he made you miss your flight.

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Life, this would get the point across to me

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good idea. Thank u. U seem to understand

Answer 2

hes a **** >:o!

Answer 3

how about no sex for him. Unless he pays for your bills.

Answer 4

yea, explain to him the money situation, give him the pic and return the lingerie. tell him the best things come to those who wait. then let it go.

Answer 5

Well, I don't know him but instinctively it seems like he did this on purpose. I could be wrong but why was he so adamant when he knew you were running behind and why did you comply? You could have said no.
Get back at him? Why? Are you still angry? I say let it go and next time, don't let him slow you down!

Answer 6

You don't..you act with maturity like a reasonable adult and talk it out with him and try and understand why and work it out. Communication is important, and this is a childish, selfish, very immature thing to do is revenge. Sure you're ticked, but rant about it at him for a bit or do something to let it out but revenge isn't the answer. Sorry you missed your flight though. Think about it: i'm no expert but this could be something you could regret in the morning. One thing my mom told me is if I ever meet someone to never wake up in the morning mad at them, or anyone for that matter, because it is the most horrible feeling to have waking up to. Please keep that in mind :) Don't do something you'll regret, like really if you can help it.

Also, if you were pressed for time just leave. Even if he doesn't like it you have a plane to catch, and that's not something you want to miss especially if the wait is another four hours. I fly stand-by when I fly with my dad, or both of my parents because he works for Air Canada, so I know what it's like to miss a flight, or waiting to see if you actually get on. Sucks when their system is based upon seniority, but fortunately my dad has about 30 years now.

Answer 7

It's ok to be mad at him for this, but if you cherish him as your boyfriend, revenge isn't an option. You can't be in a healthy relationship when you're purposely making him miserable.

Answer 8

Why would you be with such a controlling ****? Part company.

Answer 9

Wow.. I do agree, he SHOULD pay you 150, but I highly doubt he will pay for it, or understand.

Answer 10

You hv all the right to take a funny revenge .... make sure dat it should b funny enough and u dont loose him..okay..... also make sure u get ur money back..... What i feel abt sending pic, covering ur face would not be better option...I don’t think he will regret for that.......Guys are not dat needy for sex wit same women.... but sure different girls, interesting....taste of sex will be different....I am sure abt dat.....

The best option is to mak him seduce till he is into it and walk away and ask him for money...defanitly he will giv u back.....or may b u can tak his nude pic nd blackmail him..dont know how it work for him....may b u can tak him to a far place in ur car where he dont get any taxi...drop him nd drive away nd phone him nd ask 4 money.....