Should I do this or not? Or how to make him feel "gutted"?

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this guy hurt me in some way. he was always saying how much he "likes" me, he was telling me things like "your the one ... we've got so much in common... we need to go out ..." etc. at the time, when he was asking me out, I wasn't sure it was a good idea (I didn't know him that much, he was showing his interest, which turned out to be lie) so I said "maybe not now, maybe later". after this he stopped talking to me, I was so mad at him - he was ignoring me all week, and then - thanks to facebook - I found out that all this time he was adding my girlfriends to his friends list! and more - once my bro caught him during his date with one of my friends! luckily this girl didn't know that it was my bro and that this lier and hypocrite was asking me out as well. I was so mad at him. and the ugliest part of this story is that when he sees me in uni, he starts flirting! can you believe it? oh gosh I want to do something to make him feel miserable, angry and furious! I had this little plan, but I'm not sure it's good enough - I'll delete him from my friends list and then I'll send him msg like "sorry, my boyfriend didn't want you in my friends list" hah! how good/bad is that? or maybe you can suggest something else? he hurts girls' hearts, now it's time to make him feel that way! [evil laugh]. or maybe it's better just to ignore him? I'm confused.

Answer 1

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PRESS ON........this is one of those things later in life you look back on and say "god, what a waste of time that was". Who needs this kind of confusion and angst in their lives? just move on honey

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43 years on the planet

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yeah. that's right.

Answer 2

use a knife

:D

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yerg

Answer 3

make out his best friend. that always works.

good luck

Answer 4

hes a player he wouldn't care if you deleted him from your friend list he will meet other girls and flirt with them.I think you should just ignore him

Answer 5

psh "makeout with his best friend"
if that happened to me (a guy) id consider talking to your sister, bestfriend (girl), and mom.

Answer 6

you call that evil.... HA!

have somebody do a no show on him...like say they'll go out with him (date set and everything)... and just don't even show for it

and to add to it have them send a text saying they'll be running late.... (that way he'll wait longer)
then after that... you ditch him too...double whammy...

last part if you want to make mad...make a joke about how you wouldn't want to date a loser who the other night couldn't even get a girl to show up for a date.. (which = info you shouldn't normally know..) (which lets him know that you might have something to do with it)(or that you found about it which would also be embarrassing for him)

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but then again on the other hand you did kinda tell him no...(maybe not now...means no to guys)

which kinda means that you set him free to go do whatever and date whoever...
i mean...
(cause you said no) D.D

(or am i misunderstanding that he dated this girl after you said that?)

(but if he's a scumbag in your opinion tell your friends/whoever and delete him... that should be about as far as it goes really) D.D

Answer 7

Another boywhore who will one day be a manwhore. I don't understand where these guys come from?? Seems like some alien spaceship flew down a dropped off a bunch of bad seeds a while back and now us females are all having to deal with these jerks! lol..Ok here's ideas...when u see him and he flirts, make fun of him or laugh at him like, "yeah right as if I would ever go out with a guy like you" type of attitude. Make him feel stupid and bruise his ego a little by making comments about his clothing or his hair. When he speaks, only half pay attention and then say huh? Make him repeat himself...guys hate that. If he says nevermind, say OK and act like you don't even care that you didn't hear what he had to say. Basically what I'm telling you is the guy is a game player so just treat him like the joke that he is, have fun with it. After all, if it's not going to be fun, why do it?