What to do when parent are strict?

Question

My Friends and i are having a party on this friday at 1035 Bern road, Wyomissing which is laser quest and we are having a lock in meaning we will be ther from 11:45 pm to 6 am and she flat out said no even though
1 there will be many adults there
2 it's not like i will be out doing drugs
3 we must stay in the building
I just don't know how to get her to say yes because we already paid for it. Any advice to give me?

Answer 1

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Your parents are saying no because they are doing what they think is best for you. There are some teenages that are more responsilble than others. They do not want anything bad to happen to you. They know that no matter how supervised thing are that when teenagers diside they want to do something they will find a way no matter what. They trust your judgement but they do not trust the other teenagets that will be there. Even when you are locked inside a building thing will happen and with supervision. You will just have to accept your parents decission and that is about all I can say. Good Luck.

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Father, Grand Father, Great Grand Father.

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thanks for the advice

Answer 2

be grateful that you have parents who care about you.

Answer 3

You didnt pay for it. They did.

And it depends on whos going to be there that your parent dont want you to be around.

Think about that? eh? eh?

Answer 4

I can see why she's so strict, seeing as you're foolish enough to post the address of the event on a public website so every predator online can come hunting for you and your friends.

It's apparent you're not yet mature or responsible enough for such activities. Your parents are trying to protect you dear. Help them, don't hinder them.

Answer 5

Why the late hours? The fact that there are going to be lots of adults there does not make those adults responsible one. I would need to know more about those adults than the rest of the crowd to begin with. What adult would have a teenage party with those hours?

Be proud that you have parents that care. Just ask a gang member, or a drug addict or alcoholic how much they wished they had parents like yours. You will be a parent some day and you will understand.

Answer 6

Just because there will be adults there doesn't mean they are considered responsible. In this day in age trust is a major issue considering all of the sick and twisted things happening to people. Just because your parents paid for this doesn't mean that gives you the right to go...although they were dumb enough to waste that money for no reason at all. Why pay for something if you can't even show up? Or you must've done something that ruined the trust with your parents in the past, and they still have a problem trusting you. I can't say...I don't know your parents, the entire situation, and it's none of my business. But if your mom says no, she means no. Most likely if you've asked five million times already you're still going to get the same answer. Maybe she has something else planned. If you need to know why you can't go she's most likely going to say something along the lines like, "Because I said so", and she doesn't have to give you an answer. You keep nagging your mom, she's going to get very annoyed with you. She's made her decision, now deal with it. There's still a VERY slim chance you could still go, but I wouldn't get your hopes up. Apparently she's said no for a reason, and she doesn't have to tell what the reason is.

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Oh yeah, and because you posted this address in your question, I think that was a rather dumb thing to do. Like I said there's a lot of sick people out there that are capable of doing just about anything.