Pete S
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- August 12, 2008
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Super hot girl -- What is my next move? or should I back off? ps.( I am romantically retarded)?
I met this woman at the local coffee shop, she helped me find a tea strainer and we chatted. She introduced herself and shook my hand (I was caught of guard. I don't get approached by attractive women often). I gave her my name and moved on.
I returned that weekend and some followings weeknights but she was not there, she must be a 9-5 worker. I took the following Wednesday off work and I went over there again- there she was. We made small talk and I gave her my business card with my cell number on it. I felt good about it.
No call. Today is Wednesday again and I am home sick( nothing noticable). I went over there again and had a coffee. We said hello- how are you? but on the whole she was busy and I did not make a great effort to approach her.
What should I do now?
I can't take anymore Wednesday's off work
My biggest concern is that I should've asked for her number instead of giving mine- Did I screw the dating protocol?
by Censure 455
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- December 22, 2008
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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker
You are making a big deal out of nothing that actually happened, she may have just been nice to you because she was having a good day. I would say just move on and stop worrying about her, you gave her your number if she calls then great if not then you have to live your life.
Cheers.
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by Destruci...
- Member since:
- November 23, 2009
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Wow you are romantically retarded. She was introducing herself like a professional sales person should. Dumbass.
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by Sophie
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- August 15, 2009
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Sorry buddy, but it sounds like she just isn't interested.
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by Brandon S
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- August 06, 2008
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well i think the ball is in her court now ...but if she doesnt call within like 3 days id say move on cuz shes not that interested
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by Nene44
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- November 24, 2009
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retarded yes! for sure. if she likes you she will call that is it! she has not called so get over it.there will be more