Nervous/anxious about 1 week long trip to Quebec with boyfriend?

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First off i've never gone on a vacation with just friends let alone just my boyfriend. I've already paid for it and so now I have to go...it's at a ski resort so I know he is going to want to ski a lot and i never have so i'm nervous about that too and i don't want to make a fool out of myself in front of him. There are also outdoor hottubs and i'm nervous about being in a bathing suit. Other than that it's just the fact we're going to be together all the time for a week. I'm nervous because that's a long time and we haven't actually ever roomed together anywhere before..Please help me relax..I don't know why I'm so nervous. I'm really excited to go, but i'm scared! :x

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You say you have never been skiing before, so let him know. He won't expect you to know how to do it perfectly the first time, no one can. He will probably help you out, and you guys will have a few laughs when you do mess up. Its nothing to be embarrassed of. If it was me and my girlfriend i would be happy to teach her, i think it would be fun. As for being embarrassed about wearing a bathing suit, don't be. You know your boyfriend is attracted to you already, and if he really likes you he isn't going to sit their judging your body and picking you apart. Trust me. In order to relax, you need to let yourself. Instead of thinking of all the things that can go wrong, just try to focus on the positive things. Like how much fun it will be, and how its your first time going on vacation with someone you really care about. Its all in the mind. I'm sure once you get there it will be fine.

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thanks :)