I Just told a girl how I feel? (Lets Try this Again)?

Question

On facebook through message, its been few hours and she has read it, so if she didn't like me she would of said it now right? Is this where I give her time?

And I do know her in person, I always talk, be nice/flitry and give hugs to her and all the time. Don't tell me to grow some balls either.

Answer 1

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hello i remember ad-vicing you in your last question well done telling her how you feel if she didn't like you she would have told you by now so yes give her time ! don't take any notice of trolls telling you to grow balls you always get one bad apple
anyway just wait she will come back to you i know this girl means a lot to you its a big thing to a girl when a lad tells you how they feel us woman are more emotional !.. good luck tell us how you got on i will look out for you
take care Angela

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Asker's Comment:

Thanks Angie :D And to everyone else, she still ain't messaged me but everything is still going cool.

And sorry I do have balls, its just its not easy putting yourself out in open and freely talking about your feelings...

Answer 2

Yeah, give her more time.

Answer 3

She is now wondering how to let you down without hurting your feelings.

Answer 4

Give her time to think of what to say to you.Sometimes silence means "yes" but can be no too.

Answer 5

I did the same thing to a guy i fell in love with and got heart broken i hope it dosnt happen to you

Answer 6

well I told a guy that I liked him and I waited a few hours and finally I couldn't take it and forced a answer out of him... it didn't go well... give her time

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personal experience

Answer 7

"so if she didn't like me she would of said it now right?"
No, not necessarily, its easier to say nothing than to tell some one they are not interested if she doesn't want to hurt your feelings
Yes, this is the bit you have to wait, in less you send her another message saying "look, I'm cool if you don't want to, just let me know" (type thing)

Answer 8

why don't you just message her again and say something like "arghh i feel like a bit of a div now don't worry if you don't feel the same , i would love to be your friend though , your a great girl!" either way she will answer and if she is feeling bad about telling you she don't feel the same it will make it easier on her and if she does she can say no no i like you! bingo good luck!

Answer 9

Aww cutie:)
I would wait because she probably likes you back but doesn't really
know how to say it without sounding weird or anything. Even thought you
do know her well. Don't worry you haven't made her feel werid it just
comes to girls some or mostly in general I guess.

Answer 10

give her the time she needs.. she's probably waiting a bit.. so she doesn't seem to desprate as well. Gee dude. its only been a few hours. let the woman breath. don't stress. try doing somthing that'll take your mind of the whole situation for a while.

shweet!

Answer 11

grow some balls mate x

Answer 12

Yes. Give her some time to think about it.
If you haven't heard from her in a day or two then give her a call.

Good luck! :-)