Relationship question for girls...?

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Alright girls...Here's my problem.

I've had this crush for a long time. But I didn't think I had any chance with her whatsoever, so I never let my feelings show. A month ago, she told me she might like me. So we hung out a few times and we kissed a bit. Now, there's this guy from college that she used to date last year. He has come home a couple of times and they hung out both times. And now it kinda seems like she might not like me but I could just be being paranoid. Like I asked her to hang out friday and she just said "Yeah I'm kinda busy."

Btw, the guy from college has abs and what not...and I don't really. I don't think she's that shallow, but I don't really know what girls want in a guy. I'm a sweet guy and I've not really had a serious relationship before, so I'm kinda new at this :P

What do I do? Do I ask her about it? Do I just keep trying to hang with her? Please help.

Answer 1

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If you like this girl then you will let her come to you. Meaning, that you don't ALWAYS want to hang out with her (you do but you wanna let her come to you). So instead of you trying to seem all desperate for her, why don't you just wqait for her to ask you to hang out? Because the more avaible you are for her, the more she'll go away from you. So just wait for her. :)

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Thanks a lot I appreciate it. I'll try this. :)

Answer 2

It sounds like she wants a boyfriend, so when her college bf isn't around, she goes for you, but when he's back, she goes for him.

That's not the kind of person you want to be commited to in any way. She'll break your heart. Think about it.

The trick with girls is not to be swayed by your emotions. Take a look at how they act. You might be with a super sexy, "kind", girl that you're "in love" with, but she might treat you like crap. That's how it goes. It's called "manipulation." The girl often doesn't even know she's doing it. It's so natural for her.

Answer 3

Just ask her about It.If she's kissed you she has feelings for you .I think your being a little paranoid. Just talk to her about how you feel.Everything will be fine

Answer 4

If I was you, I'd ask her straight out. She shouldn't keep you hanging like that, it doesn't make sense. Be honest and open with her. She may surprise you or she may hurt your feelings. But either way, best to ask her.

Good luck