GIRLS, should I text her first?

Question

Me and this friend of mine tried dating recently. We used to text all day, good morning to good night. And If I didnt text her, she would text me first. But we decided just to stay friends. And now shes not texting me as much. Actually way less. Her messages are getting shorter, to the point. And if I dont text her, I dont hear from her. Should I text her "Happy Thanksgiving" first, or wait for her to text me? If she even does. Im puttin the effort in, but she doesnt seem to want to anymore.

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Did you miss the part where I said we tried to date? She didnt want to, she said lets be friends!

Answer 1

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i Think You Should Text her first, because most girls are stubborn annd let the boys do the texting first, :)
i always wait for this boy to write to me first even though i really want to talk to him. You should Text and see if she wants to meet up :)

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Answer 2

You need more than a happy thanksgiving, put it out there, be confident tell her how you are feeling chicken... You can move forward knowing you did your best then..

Answer 3

Itchy balls.

Answer 4

simple....just have a talk to her why she is somehow avoiding u...or doesn't give you much attention....having a conversation to her would clear things up...and so that the 2 of you won't create a misunderstanding and don't feel awkward everytime u see each other...besides if she really likes you she would make an effort to keep ur relationship in tuck...

Answer 5

Situation 1: You don't like her and that is why you don't want to date her,you're just friends. Than just write happy thanksgiving,it's not such a big deal..

Situation 2: You still like her - then say her so. If she doesn't like you,she won't like you even if you say and even if you don't say so you have nothing to lose...Tell her how you feel.

good luck.

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Answer 6

Text her first, you're the guy .