Why Is He Acting This Way?!?

Question

me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months we are engaged and we just lost a baby about a month ago, when i met him he was on heavy drugs but i changed him and helped him get off them and he did i used to not be so intrested in him in the begining of our relationship and he was so lovely to me and i knew i was wrong to be acting like that and he gave me no option but to change now we are at this stage where he has been lying to me latly where i found out he is back on the drugs and says hes to addicted to stop and can't, we dont really have a active sex life anymore and he can never be bothered to come and see me anymore which i understand kinda because he does work hard everytime i question him about why hes acting this way he just says i want to much off him, he also used to send me cute messages and really sweet things like buying me little gifts and things which really made me happy and im still doing the same to him, i really do love him and dont want to lose him we finished before but i missed him too much we got back together he's also saying he wants to start going back out with his mates that get him in trouble and make him take drugs, im not too sure why hes acting this way, please help?

Answer 1

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Drugs do funny things to people. They change them in way that are very difficult to explain. Drugs cause a person to loose interest in sex and other things. The only thing they realy care about is where their next high is comming from. If he is wanting to go out with his old friends then the is more than likely back on drugs. One a person is out of rehab they should not come in contact with any one that they run with before rehab. These people were users and they will influence him to start all over with drugs again. He needs to make new friends that are not into drugs and discourage the use of drugs. I hope this is of some help to you and good luck in trying to change him for the better. Good Luck.

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thank you that really helped turned out he didnt want to be with me in the end though but never mind thanks again

Answer 2

i think losing your baby has knocked him down and made him upset tht he lost his child and tht i think yous should sit down and talk bout it