What to do when your man doesn't call you back?

Question

I don't know what's going on. I called him 5 times for the past 2 days, left messages and he doesn't bother to call me back or even pick up the phone.

Why is he doing this ? I told him that if he wants to break it off, to tell me so. But still no calls, he doesn't even bother to pick up the phone and it drives me insane ! He knows it

The 5th message, I told him that I would leave him alone and give him his space, that I wouldn't call anymore and that if he wants to see me, he's the one who will have to call.

Any advise? do you think it's a cowardly way of saying it's over between the 2 of us ?

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Thanks Jude, Queen, you ladies are right !

Answer 1

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you told him if he wants to break it off to tell you... not talking to you at all is a pretty straight forward answer to me.

You said you'd stop calling so stop. Now just stick to that. If he does call you back don;t just go running back arms wide open, talk & work on your relationship.

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Thanks to Just me, Jude and Queen for your answers.

Yes I am sticking with it and no I won't run back arms wide open. He really hurt me

Answer 2

How many days is it going to take for you to get the message that he doesn't want to deal with you?

This man is a coward, he doesn't want to put his pant on and tell you face to face he's breaking up.

It's over. Stop harassing him.

ADD: Watch the movie 'He's not that into you'.....you need it.

Answer 3

When someone doesn't call you back it usually means they have someone else. he does this because he is a coward, and maybe he isn't sure yet, so he doesn't want to completely burn his bridges with you just yet. I would stop calling him if he doesn't even respect you enough to return your calls.

Answer 4

This is a classic immature guy move. He doesn't like you. Quit calling him...you've called way too much already and are getting ready to move into stalker status. Move on and find someone who wants to answer the phone when you call.

Answer 5

You make idle threats to him and then continue calling! He's probably laughing at you. Does common sense not tell you to stop calling?

Answer 6

Yup, he's the coward but you're coming off as the fool.

Even though he's a douche for leaving you hanging like this, just stop calling. I'm sure once he notices you've stopped caring, he'll call you at some point. Then you let him have it!

Answer 7

LOL ummmmmmmmm cant u take a hint.. stop calling they guy .. why are u chasing after him? he should be chasing after u , ur giving him way to much power.. and making urself look like a desperate idiot in the process.. move on with ur life, if he wants to contact u , he will.. 1 phone call should of been all it took .. geeze...

Answer 8

stop calling, he's not your man anymore.

Answer 9

You aren't getting the hint are you? You see him as cowardly, he probably sees you as suffocating. Take the hint and move on.