What should i say now? Need your help quick!! 10points!!?
Met a guy last weekend in a club. He text me the next day asking to meet up but i was busy with friends, so i text him saying i couldn't. I text him again today saying sorry bout being busy and if he was doing anything this weekend. He's just text back saying he's going to be out tomorrow night and asked was I around. I would like to see this guy but the thing is I don't really want to meet him in a club. Like, you can't talk in a club, and anyway none of my friends are going out tommorow. I can't suggest another day because he is going away then.
So, what should I text him? I feel bad blowing him off again, especially cause i text him first this time. Should I mention that I'm free in the evening instead?
by mitch
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- November 12, 2009
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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker
yes just tell him when you are available,maybe mention a few slots when you are free then maybe you can both find a slot which suits you both don't forget to mention you would rather not meet in a club that way you wont look as though you are fobbing him off
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- Thanks. Told him I was free but I wasn't going clubbing and he asked to meet up and what I wanted to do :D
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by Macey
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- November 25, 2009
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You should be honest with him. Tell him that you would like to talk and stuff and that you can't do that in a club. If he is really interested then he will make an effort. :)
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by shoregir...
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- December 27, 2008
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Just tell him that you'll be out tomorrow too and see if he wants to meet up, that way you can tell him where you are so you can choose a more quiet place to talk. if that doesnt work though and you like him, then just go out wherever hes going. good luck girl!
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by Makayla
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- October 17, 2009
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If you don't want to meet him in a club then that's what you should tell him. It seems like you want to get to know him better, but since he must want to meet at a club, then I don't know if he wants the same. Maybe you should explain that you want to get to know him better and see what happens.
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by frenchfr...
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- March 03, 2009
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Well, what do you think? You better do what ever you can before he leaves. You never know he might be the one for you!
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by charley2...
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- November 25, 2009
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youre lucky you found a guy tat texted u next day lol but anyways he very keen it seems and hi jus go for it i did one time and learned i needed to do it for myself , u will ave a ball and i tink a club a great place to start u dnt want to talk to much and drink will give u more confidence if ya need it wit out ure mates ave fun if u go !!!!!! hope u do