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  • Astral Projection Onset or Sleep Paralysis?

    I knew it had first began when I felt a low, dense vibration humming in my toes. I was curious, and let it be. The vibration spread to my calves, seizing them, and then made its way up to my knees. My hands felt numb and heavy, and suddenly I felt trapped in my body. I panicked at first, realizing I could not move. When I talked myself out of it and relaxed again, I felt a sort of… lifting. It began again in my toes and spread throughout my legs. I felt as if I was being pulled out of my body. And there were hands, hands everywhere. I felt them grabbing at me anxiously, wanting to pull me into their world. They were not human hands… I could visualize them as being sort of white, wispy and glowing… I was hearing a low buzzing all around me. I lifted out of my body almost completely when I became aware of someone in the hall outside of my bedroom. This again was not a human presence, and it felt very much like dark energy. I instantly locked up again because of fear, scared that I would never be able to move again. Finally, the experience ended when I forced myself to wiggle a finger and found that the rest of my body became unlocked.

    Would this be the beginning of astral travel, or simply sleep paralysis? I lucid dream quite frequently.

    Please reply me if you have some insight. Thank you, namaste.

    3 AnswersReligion & Spirituality8 years ago
  • Told my Mom I Smoke Weed?

    I've been smoking for about a year now. No cigarettes, no booze, just weed. It really helps with my anxiety and depression and has benefited me greatly as a person. I only smoke about once a week, if that.

    I'm at the top of my class with a 90% average. I don't get into fights at school, I have a great group of friends, and teachers have no problems with me.

    However, my mom is really against pot but I hated lying to her and keeping it a secret. Yesterday, I finally broke down and told her because I want to have an honest relationship and keep things open between the two of us, as we have a good relationship already.

    She was angry at first, then started demanding answers, then thanked me for telling her. Everything was fine until today, a day later, where she is being hostile towards me and refuses to let me out of the house. I'm only 16, so I understand completely, but what can I do? I'm starting to feel like a terrible person for telling her.

    Was it a bad idea to tell her? Will things cool off eventually or have I wrecked things?

    11 AnswersFamily8 years ago
  • PHYSICAL EXAM for Girls?

    I have to go for a physical in February, and I was wondering what exactly they do during a physical (it'll be my first). Specifically, I'd like to know if they ask about your sexual activity and/or drug use? Also, if you confide in a doctor when you're under 16 in Canada, can they still tell your parents or is it patient confidentiality? Thank you! :)

    3 AnswersWomen's Health9 years ago
  • Why is sex so painful?

    I'm 15, and lost my virginity a couple months ago to my boyfriend. It was extremely painful and he could only get about half way in- I bled like crazy and we had to stop. We've tried a few more times but every time he tries to penetrate me (gently) it hurts like this burning and stabbing sensation, although less than the first time. Being relaxed and lubricated definitely isn't the problem. Also, fingering does not cause any pain but I am very tight. Is there something wrong with my hymen? I'm wondering if it's partially torn and keeps getting irritated or what. Thank you very much for your answers, serious only please :)

    6 AnswersWomen's Health9 years ago
  • why is sex so painful for me?

    I'm 15, and lost my virginity a couple months ago to my boyfriend. It was extremely painful and he could only get about half way in- I bled like crazy and we had to stop. We've tried a few more times but every time he tries to penetrate me (gently) it hurts like this burning and stabbing sensation, although less than the first time. Being relaxed and lubricated definitely isn't the problem. Also, fingering does not cause any pain but I am very tight. Is there something wrong with my hymen? I'm wondering if it's partially torn and keeps getting irritated or what. Thank you very much for your answers, serious only please :)

    1 AnswerWomen's Health9 years ago
  • Making a product associated with Aphrodite, Goddess of Love, Beauty & Sexuality?

    For my English class, I have to create a special product of some sort that relates to Aphrodite- like a perfume line or love potion or something (of course, all the typical ideas have already been done in the years before). It has to be unique and creative. It should promise something along the lines of love, beauty and/or sexuality, as these are the qualities Aphrodite represents.

    If anyone could think of a product for her, that would be AMAZING! I've been puzzled over this for weeks. Thank you so much to everyone who throws an idea out there :)

    1 AnswerHomework Help9 years ago
  • Found Out My Boyfriend's Birthday Present For Me?

    Me and my boyfriend's little sister were helping clean my boyfriend's room the other day. My boyfriend stepped out for a minute, and I moved on to his nightstand. There was a gold heart locket there. I picked it up and asked his sister what it was. She said it was probably her mom's and she didn't know how it got there. I thought nothing of it. Then today on the phone, I was trying to get him to tell me what my present was (jokingly). He was looking for it and started freaking out because he thought he lost it. I asked him where it was (he had already told me it was small, shiny and gold). He said his nightstand. Immediately, I knew what it was, and told him where it was. We're both upset that I found out that way... I'm going over to his house in a bit. What should I do? I feel like the surprise has been ruined!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Should I go? (easy 10 points!)?

    This weekend, my boyfriend invited me to his cottage to spend 2-3 days with him and his family (dad, mom and sister). It's about a 4 hour drive. I've met his family a couple times, and they're all very nice, but I don't know them very well. He's just turned 15 and I'm 14, almost 15.

    I don't know if I should go, because I don't know them very well yet, although I'm quite comfortable around my boyfriend (even though we've only been dating for a couple of months).

    So, do you guys think it's worth it? I appreciate all serious opinions, thank you :)

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Friend & I Like The Same Guy... Risk Friendship for Relationship?! (10 points)?

    Yesterday I went to my close friend Victoria's party. She goes to a different high school than me, & even though it's in my area, I don't see her often. I didn't know anyone when I went except her, but I ended up meeting a really sweet guy. We ended up really hitting it off and talking and joking the whole night, and we had definite chemistry.

    Now today, I heard from her that he told her he thinks I'm nice and pretty, and was wondering if I asked about him too. I really like him too, but here's the problem:

    Victoria likes him too. A LOT. So she's really upset that he feels like that about me. I haven't told her I like him, but I really want to see him again without risking my friendship with her.

    So what should I do about that?

    Thank you so much! :) xo

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Coordinates on Google Maps..? (10 points Best Answer!)?

    For a Geography assignment, I'm given the Longitude and Latitude of somewhere in Canada, and I have to find out where that place is.

    I don't have an atlas, so I'm trying to find it on Google Maps.

    My problem is, I don't know how to! Do I just type the coordinates in?

    (Sorry if this is a stupid question, I don't really use Google Maps often)

    The coordinates are:

    Lat: 51.07N

    Long: 114.01W

    If that helps at all... Thank you so much!

    10 points best answer!

    1 AnswerHomework Help10 years ago
  • Random E-mail from Ex-Boyfriend...?

    My friend was in a relationship with a guy for about a month or so but they were quite serious about each other, (according to her). She told me it ended because she asked too many questions. (She is a bit clingy, to be honest, but she has good intentions). They haven't been in contact since September and he dated other girls. I've never met him but to me he sounds like he wasn't very interested in her and she doesn't believe me. She thinks they were in love or something.

    But out of the blue, she got an email from him saying, simply:

    "I haven't talked to you in awhile........ yeah, I just wanted to say hi and see how you are."

    Now she's obsessing over it and I told her I'd get her some answers.

    So, what do you think he means by the email? Thanks!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating10 years ago
  • Chest & Back Acne... Help please ):?

    I'm a 14 year old girl & I've started getting a bit of acne on the back of my shoulder blades and on my chest. It isn't severe but I'd still like it to be gone. (My chest acne started really showing up when I picked at it, bad mistake, I know).

    I have fairly good skin on my face with a bit of acne, which can be easily covered up. Nothing is severe.

    Anyways, I'm wondering, does anyone have any good remedies for getting rid of chest and back acne? No harsh chemicals please, but maybe like a body wash or a change in diet?

    I don't know! Anything would be helpful! Thank you :)

    1 AnswerOther - Skin & Body10 years ago
  • Exercise & Toning Help, 10pts!?

    I'm a 14 year old girl, and although I'm an overall healthy eater, I've been doing litterally NOTHING for exercise this winter except walking home from school for about 40 minutes, but that doesn't get my heart rate up since I'm not speed walking or anything.

    So I'm going on a vacation in March, and I'd like to know what the best exercises for toning are for:

    -Hips

    -Tummy

    -Outer Thighs

    Any help would be appreciated... Only serious answers. Thank you so much!

    3 AnswersDiet & Fitness10 years ago
  • Had a dream I was tripping on LSD?

    Last night, I had the most vivid and amazing dream... It seemed to alter reality. All I really recall from it at this point was the twisting colors and how everything was different, but peaceful, somehow. &in the dream, I knew I was about to take LSD and when I did, things were good at first like I described, but then they went a little weird and I started to get paranoid, and someone said, "she's having a bad trip" and told me to relax. I did, and things went all good again like I described.

    The catch is that I've never tried any drug whatsoever and don't really have a desire to. I've always been curious but I don't think I'd every act upon that.

    Does anyone know what this might mean?! Any guesses would be appreciated. Thanks! :)

    2 AnswersDream Interpretation10 years ago
  • Really Weird Measurements?! Body Help!!!?

    I'm a 14 years old girl & I have really strange measurements...

    Bust: 34 B

    Waist: 26.5 inches

    Hips: 33.5 inches

    On my dad's side of the family, a Pear Shape is most common.

    On my mom's side of the family, an Hourglass Shape is most common.

    Which one do you think I will be!? I would much rather be an hourglass but I'm scared because when I gain weight, it's sort of more around my lower half/hips/outer thighs... except for my butt! I have a sort of small butt compared to my hips, so it's a little confusing!

    If it helps, I'm about 5.6 and a half & my weight ranges from about 102 lbs - 110 lbs depending on the time of day. (I know it doesn't sound like much, but I'm not crazy skinny or anything, nor do I want to be).

    I'd REALLY appreciate some help on what shape you think I'll turn out to be, thanks vm! :)

    3 AnswersOther - Skin & Body10 years ago
  • Help me decide what to do tonight please? :/?

    So basically for New Year's Eve I have 3 options:

    - To go to my dad's house where he's having a party with his friends/ their kids my age (but I don't get along with any of them)...

    - To go with my mom to her friend's house who's having a party- this actually sounds fun because I get along with all my moms friends but there won't be anyone my age there (I'm 14).

    - To stay alone at my moms house. This actually won't be as bad as it seems.. I don't mind being alone.

    The trouble is I'm in a massive fight with my dad and brother right now so I really don't wanna go over there, plus I really hate his girlfriends kids and don't want to spend time with them.

    But technically, he gets the night with me. He's supposed to spend time with me tonight but since I don't wanna go... sigh. Yet he'll get REALLY pissed at me if I spend more time with my mom (this is what I'm mad about in the first place). But I don't wanna listen to him making snide comments, etc.

    I really hope you can help me decide what to do?! Im really down about this :(

    Thank you so much in advance, I really appreciate it :)

    6 AnswersFamily10 years ago
  • What was your first kiss/love like :)?

    im curious to hear about other peoples! ;) so was it awkward, embarassing, adorable, amazing..? details if you can! its always fun to read these :)

    11 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Is this guy a creep? What should I do?

    I met this guy at school a few months ago and we have a few similar interests, but he's coming off as so desperate he won't stop harassing me. He CONSTANTLY texts me, like 8 times in a row even if I'm not replying to him. 80% of the time I don't even respond, yet he still continues to text me, like at 7 in the morning when I'm still waking up. It's ridiculous.

    He also talks to me ALL the time and asked me once if I wanted to go to the movies with him. I am not being mean, I try to be firm though, because I don't even really wanna be friends with him. He's just too clingy for that!

    I'm NOT interested in him and I definitely don't lead him on. I'm not trying to be rude, but he has NO idea how to take a hint... It's like an obsession.

    He once confessed to me that he's never had a girlfriend, so that might be it, because he might not know how to act around girls. But honestly, I never thought it would get this bad! I've showed 0 interest and when I do reply it's very dully and bored.

    How do I get him off my tracks? Thanks :/

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago