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  • Was it me or him. I met this guy online. We started talking on a Sunday. His birthday was that Tuesday .?

    I expected him not to talk that day. We met like on Wednesday . We spent 3hrs together. I'm 24 and he is 26. I'm a virgin that hasn't dated much and he has dated alot. I was homeschooled. We just went to the park because he hasn't got paid. He has a full time job and has been to school to do body shop work. So he is trying to start his own body shop. Well he said we would go out on probably Saturday. Well Friday night I heard nothing. Saturday morning nothing so I texted and said are we going anywhere. No response so finally he called and said it was his bday weekend and he would be busy. I was just like you coulda told me. I was embarrassed because I had told people. I mentioned that. Anyway Sunday I heard nothing. I called and said what is up? He said he was still celebrating. Monday he texts hes at home. I'm just wondering if this guy is interested i call and am like do you like me? He hangs up. I call back. Later he asks me out and we go on first date. We kissed and had a good time. Next week just texts while hes at work. Then we had talked about me deleting my profile. I do and tell him. He was supposed to delete his too. I do and then he adds pics. I get mad and text him I'm done. He thinks I'm overreacting. But he was the person at beginning who asked if I wanted him to be my bf and initiated the kissing. We were acting like a relationship. Any way he says he'll talk to me about it later. He texts later and I say I wanna work it out. We talk on the phone. He explains that he has alot to do with his business and for his mom. It kinda makes sense then. I explain that I just don't want to get hurt if hes not interested then he has no obligation. So the next week he calls a little more. But it's the 3rd weekend with no date or mention of one. So I really like him but he never asks. So my cousin suggest I ask him. He's happy and says yes. When we are planning a time he tells how he doesnt have much money. I am a full time college student but I have money saved. So Friday the movie wanted to see was sold out. So he suggests I come over his house he lives with his mom but she was on vacation. He lives 30 mins away. I went we had a good time. He's really affectionate and just seems like the kinda guy I've always wanted. But he doesn't like for me to ask where is this going. I mentioned it and he's like why can't you just let it happen? I say ok. But my friend had said I should ask at a month. I text last Monday and say I wanna ask a question. I say its been a month do you want to continue dating. Don't get mad lol. He says nothing. I call no answer. I feel like I really fell for this boy so I wrote him an email like 2 days later. I told him all I wanted was to spend time together but he never wanted to. Well no answer. It's been a week and I miss him so much. I wanna talk to him but I don't know if he still doesn't want to. Was I too pushy or was it him? I'm new to dating so I didn't know. Please help

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Are my standards too high?

    I met this guy online. We haven't known each other long but we've been on 2 "dates". He paid for the first one at the movies. He goes to college and work so I understand low funds. But the next date I paid for myself because he said the next one would have to be cheap. It's valentines day I know we are not serious but I thought he could have gave me something small. But he said we haven't known each other long. He said if I had bought him something he would buy me something. He believes this in every situation. I have to buy him something for him to give me something. Is this right?

    15 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • What would you do? My mother has breast cancer that has spread to her bones and now her liver. She has to get?

    A port so she can start chemo. I go to college full time. I also take care of my grandma who is in a nursing because my mom is unable to. I am just overwhelmed with it all. I am thinking about taking a break or lowering my class load but I have student loans. I just don't know what to do. Anybody have any suggestions?

    5 AnswersCancer8 years ago
  • Foundation problems?!?! i just bought a new home, but before i bought it i found a crack in the foundation. So?

    I hired an inspector who insisted that the builder get a structurl engineer report. Well the builder got the report and it said that it was just a shrinkage crack. Well I bought the house and a week later, we heard popping noises like firecrackers. I ran to see what it was and discovered that my tile floor had spilt all across the room. It looks like its coming from the original crack. I don't want them to keep blowing me off. Today they came out and said the concrete curled. They make it out to be no big deal. What should I do? Also the dryer vent turned out to be too long and they had to cut a hole in my wall to fix it.

    2 AnswersRenting & Real Estate9 years ago
  • Please give me your opinion about this guy?!?

    My mom is ill and has people that bring medical supplies to the house. So this white guy (we're black) had been coming for a while. They became friends and would talk about all kind of stuff including politics.He is a republican and we are democrats. He does not like Obama, which they had a few debates. But anyway he never spoke to me or anything. But he is no longer coming anymore because we have a new guy. So last weekend he wrote my mom online and asked her to call him. So she did and he starts off ok and then he tells my mom that he is in love with me and wants to marry me. He asked her if she was gonna help him pay for the wedding and that once we were married she could move in with us after 3 yrs. He told her he wanted to take me somewhere the next weekend. My mom told him that he was too old but he still would not stop. He went on and on for a long time until my mom had to finally pry him off the phone. But he told her he would be expecting a call for me in a hour. I never called him. This guy is 40 yrs old and I am 22. I never really spoke to him other than opening the door for him. He gave no signs that this was what was going on in his head. He seemed to act like I didn't exist when he came over here. But he had told my mom that he did not like hispanics and made hints about not liking certain black people. Well how can he not like them but like me? He is obsessed with guns and his page online has pictures of devils and weird stuff. So this weekend ( a week later) he wrote her again and said oh he was just playing and he just misses us. I think if he was playing he would not have went on about it as long as he did. We're both kind of weirded out and worried that he is not quite right. Do you think he will go away now? He knows where we live. What's going on here? Please give your opinion.

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships10 years ago
  • Please give me your opinion about this guy!?

    My mom is ill and has people that bring medical supplies to the house. So this white guy (we're black) had been coming for a while. They became friends and would talk about all kind of stuff including politics.He is a republican and we are democrats. He does not like Obama, which they had a few debates. But anyway he never spoke to me or anything. But he is no longer coming anymore because we have a new guy. So last weekend he wrote my mom online and asked her to call him. So she did and he starts off ok and then he tells my mom that he is in love with me and wants to marry me. He asked her if she was gonna help him pay for the wedding and that once we were married she could move in with us after 3 yrs. He told her he wanted to take me somewhere the next weekend. My mom told him that he was too old but he still would not stop. He went on and on for a long time until my mom had to finally pry him off the phone. But he told her he would be expecting a call for me in a hour. I never called him. This guy is 40 yrs old and I am 22. I never really spoke to him other than opening the door for him. He gave no signs that this was what was going on in his head. He seemed to act like I didn't exist when he came over here. But he had told my mom that he did not like hispanics and made hints about not liking certain black people. Well how can he not like them but like me? He is obsessed with guns and his page online has pictures of devils and weird stuff. So this weekend ( a week later) he wrote her again and said oh he was just playing and he just misses us. I think if he was playing he would not have went on about it as long as he did. We're both kind of weirded out and worried that he is not quite right. Do you think he will go away now? He knows where we live. What's going on here? Please give your opinion.

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships10 years ago
  • Adding your name to someone's checks?

    Someone stole my grandma's checks and charged $2000 dollars. They would not stop and so we had to close the account. My mom's name was on her checks but she is handicapped now and could not come to the bank. So I put my name on the new account with my grandma. The problem is that my grandmother's other granddaughter has stolen from her and wrote checks on her before. So we kind of believe she did it this last time. My question is what would happen if my cousin got hold of these checks with my name on it?

    1 AnswerCorporations1 decade ago
  • Adding your name to someone's checks?

    Someone stole my grandma's checks and charged $2000 dollars. They would not stop and so we had to close the account. My mom's name was on her checks but she is handicapped now and could not come to the bank. So I put my name on the new account with my grandma. The problem is that my grandmother's other granddaughter has stolen from her and wrote checks on her before. So we kind of believe she did it this last time. My question is what would happen if my cousin got hold of these checks with my name on it?

    1 AnswerPersonal Finance1 decade ago
  • Is 22 too old to have people over for my birthday?

    I am 22 and don't really have any friends. So I always see my birthday as a time to be around people. But people think I am too old to have a "party". But it wouldn't really be a party just family coming over and having cake or whatever. What do you think?

    11 AnswersToddler & Preschooler1 decade ago
  • Just started watching General Hospital. Help!?

    I know some stuff but a litte confused about others. Ok so why is Carly so controlling of Jason? Why does it matter to her where Jason is? Why did she break up with Jax? How did Ethan become Luke's son? Who is Brook Lynn? Why did Maxie break up with Spinelli? Is Jason and Sam's relationship?

    1 AnswerSoap Operas1 decade ago
  • What does the three dots mean?

    I wrote some and asked them if I could come visit them in the hospital and if so when. They said "yeah it is ok..." what did they mean by the three dots? I thought it meant they didn't really want me to come. But this person told me they were in the hospital and gave me their room phone number. Please help

    9 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • What should I do? Last week I checked my voicemail, and my dad had accidentally left a message where he was?

    Talking about me to someone. He was telling them that I don't understand life the way my older sister does and he mentioned something about my mother. It was just his tone of voice that made it worse. Then today he left me a voicemail annd says that it should not be anything wrong between us.I don't live with my father and have always lived with my mother. My father is an alcoholic. I had stopped speaking to him for years but in the past couple of years had started talking to him again. I believed we had become closer and I have tried to be the best daughter I can. He has acted like he did not want to be bothered a couple of times but I brushed it off. But now to here him talk about me has changed things. I am 21 and my sister is 40. So obviously we dont understand the same things in life the same way. But she has three kids and has never had a real job. I go to school and take care of my sick mother. What would you do if you heard your dad talking about you?

    2 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Does he think I am attached?

    I talk to this guy that I met on facebook. I dont really have any close friends but people write me occasionally. I have been talking to him everynight but it doesn't seem to be a romantic thing. Then today he felt the need to tell me he was leaving and would be back later. I thought we had a friendship but I dont want it to become pity for me. I always usually wait to let him talk to me first. I click the like button and comment on some of his status's. But it's only because he does the same for me. I dont want him to think I need him because I don't. What do you think?

    1 AnswerOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • Should I invite them? I am turning 21 and I am trying to figure out who to invite.?

    I don't have any friends that I am close to. So I am having family members over but they are like from there late 30s to 50s. I could invite like or two or three people my own age but we are not that close. Do you think they would want to go to a party with a bunch of older people?

    1 AnswerFriends1 decade ago
  • Does this stuff mean anything?

    This guy that I don't know but is friends of some of my friends asked to be on my friend list. I let him be on it. One day he wrote and he said I just wanted to say hi. Now he writes me or chats with me everyday about random stuff. But he is also friendly with alot of people. I don't start any of the conversations he does. Is he just being friendly or not?

    10 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • What is there for a 20 year old to do during the summer?

    I am 20 years old and I don't have any friends. I want to find something fun to do during the summer and maybe meet some people my own age. Does anyone have any ideas?

    1 AnswerOther - Holidays1 decade ago
  • When you go to www.samyibiz.com do you get an error message?

    Everytime I try to log on it says page can't be found

    6 AnswersOther - Internet1 decade ago
  • I need to know about the Jay treaty. My class is having a debate tomorrow and I am supposed to defend it.?

    I am supposed to know about the British getting rod of their forts, England recognizing the right to trade with all of europe, and stopping naval impressment.

    1 AnswerHomework Help1 decade ago
  • Should I call my grandmother?

    My father's mother's birthday was Tuesday and I did not call her. So Wednesday he called me and I was sleep and when I got up I called him back. So when I called my grandmother answered (he lives with her) and was rude and told me she was on the phone and he could call me back later. So he called me back and asked me if I knew it was her birthday. I did but I lied and said no. So he told me I needed to call her and tell her happy belated birthday. I have never really gotten along with them well, but we talk now. I wanted to have a relationship where we talk but don't get too attached. So we had been ignoring holidays and stuff. He always calls on my birthday but I don't usually call him for his but I did this year ( he rushed me off the phone). So the other day I thought maybe I shouldn't because I don't want them to get too attached. I have my mother's side of the family who I am really close to because they have always been there for me. I didn't used to talk to my father and grandmother for 4 years. My father is an alcoholic and she has always been mean to me. I guess he thinks I should do this because he still pays child support and they gave me $25 each for my birthday. I appreciated that but that is all they have given me in years.My mom used to buy them presents for me but she stopped when I was younger and they stopped giving me gifts. So anyway I think he is telling me he will cut the child support off if I don't do this. It helps me pay my college tuition. But I feel like I am being controlled and I am 20 yrs old. My mother is the one who has taken care of me all my life and provided for me when he didn't. I just feel like calling her now is stupid, because the phone is right where she sits and I know she knows he asked me to do this. She never calls me and he always calls me at a couple of minutes before 12 am and says "did I keep you in suspense". What would you do?

    3 AnswersFamily1 decade ago