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  • Is Industrial zoning worth more than residential zoning?

    My house is residential / industrial does the industrial zoning make it worth more? I am by two major interstates and a major highway. Have great access to them. Reside in California.

    3 AnswersRenting & Real Estate1 decade ago
  • I am so depressed, I tried to start my life over but it isn't working, can't move again help?

    Moved back to my native state I came from originally different city.

    Significant other I moved in with ended up with more problems than I can list here. He threatens for me to leave.

    Can't afford to move again, and can't get a job fast. Even went to temp agency. I'm getting tons of interviews.

    2 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Should I allow him to help me?

    I have a friend we are both middle age. We met on an on line dating service. We enjoy each others company but the "magic" is not there. He knows this but keeps pushing. We have been seeing each other for a year. He broke up once and we still talk and see each other mainly from being lonely. Now he is selling his house and wants me to take any furniture I want. My house is extremely modest. My ex husband left me in the worst way. Now these items would be a God send but I can't repay him. Should I accept the furniture. His things are really nice, like a large screen t.v., couches...anything I want from this expensive home. He is down sizing and moving into a fifth wheel since he has health problems. I doubt we will ever be a couple and I feel this would be using him or him having possesion of me. On the other hand my furniture is thread bare and awful. He says I'll never get rid of him. I tell him we are broke up and just friends. He says he knows but isn't listening.

    18 AnswersFriends1 decade ago
  • What happens to old debt? Serious answers please.?

    Remarried on the rebound ended up in divorce and it was just ended annulled type thing, but legal divorce however no bills were addressed. Whatever it is, what it is not going there about divorce just over and done.

    But there were bills and it has been over 5 years for most.

    There was an auto repossession that shows negotiated to 900 owed just and late. It had been a new car sold 12,000 short of bill. on the credit report understand.

    There was a charge card for 3000. I never hear from them.

    A celular phone plan that was bogus but anyways.

    and a dental bill. They still send threatening letters but that is all I never hear from the others.

    Don't tell me to pay them on my wages that is just impossible. I don't have enough for groceries or car repairs let alone past debt created by the ex on my name.

    I am NOT filing bankruptcy. Hubby number one did that on me. It has been 8 years and credit companies still site this as excuse for not giving me a credit card for auto tire

    8 AnswersCredit1 decade ago
  • My adult son is having Christmas and only I am invited is this ok?

    I have been divorced 8 years and my ex can't talk to me after being married to me for 24 years his remarried wife who was my friend who broke us up doesn't allow it. Plus he did some bad things in the divorce to me. He is allowed zero contact no phone or email.

    I am invited for Christmas this year at my adult sons house the ex is not. If I don't go he is invited. The son called to give me first option and choice. It is long distance for any of us over 1000 miles.

    She won't allow him to go if I am there, he can't look me in the eyes after stealing our assets in the divorce. I'm not sure what to do with all of this. I went on . Just dealing with 2 new grandchildren in silence seems sad. I can't help that his new wife is a beautiful insecure woman that knows she broke us up and that he probably still has feelings for me. This is just life I suppose but should I feel bad that I seemed to have gotten the kids in the divorce? I sowed love and am reaping it now, but feel bad.

    8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • I know life is unfair but how does one find happiness again?

    My marriage ended after 24 years. He stole me blind by hiding our assets.

    I got a job. I work very hard and make decent raises but my friend at work confided in me that her raise is 250. a month more and we do basically the same thing. She already made 10,000 more a year than me and I work harder.

    I know life is unfair but this depression I can't shake.

    4 AnswersCareers & Employment1 decade ago
  • I need help controling the tone of my voice it is too loud. I am trying mentally but am failing.?

    I was raised by a slightly deaf mother and my tone is that it can pierce to the front of the building.

    I'm middle age and had to change to a quiet office for health reasons, a quiet environment after working in loud plants all my life.

    I can't change jobs right now.

    4 AnswersCareers & Employment1 decade ago
  • Is there a way to adopt a child in California without a ton of money and all the hassel of an agency?

    I'm a single woman in late 40's and am considering it. I can provide a good home but probably wouldn't qualify under most programs.

    4 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Do you have a sensible solution for getting a house loan on a 1920 home that the banks refuse?

    I am already buying the home through a private individual carrying the contract.

    The home was refused a regular loan because of its condition and age.

    I owe 55,000 and the house is worth 250,000 because of land.

    3 AnswersRenting & Real Estate1 decade ago