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    Started a temporary job recently on secondment and have been very unmotivated to do the job well and haven’t done anything at all. Supervisor has asked me if job is right for me or not and she told me if not the right fit then let her know. I am scared and worried that if I let her know I will be out of work and have nothing to do. What should I do as I don’t like job at all and have tried forcing myself to do it well. If I do ring my supervisor what should I say to her? I feel very embrassed if I lose my work. Currently suffering from anxiety as well so please help if possible 

    2 AnswersFriends3 months ago
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    Recently got called up for a informal disciplinary meeting with my employer due to poor work performance. I have to also bring a support person. Now I am very worried and concerned about what would happen. I have only been in the job for one year, should I start applying for work in other departments and what would people think of me if I leave. I feel very depressed and anxious these past two days as I suffer from depression. I am thinking of delaying meeting till the new year as I cannot find support person. What should I do in this situation. Should I also mention that my poor work performance is due to my depression and anxiety. Please help.

    2 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment8 months ago
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    Just returned from holidays two days ago and I made two huge mistakes today answering my manager with the incorrect answers. Also missed out on doing an important task which she followed up on and found out I didn’t do it.  Now I feel upset and depressed. What should I do as now as I feel very upset? How should I go about this situation as I want to crawl under a rock. 

    3 AnswersMental Health8 months ago
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    Today I am back to work after a three week holiday but I don’t feel any motivation or desire to go to work. I didn’t have good sleep as well last night because of this. How do I find the motivation to go as I feel very sad the holidays are over. Please kindly help. 

    1 AnswerOther - Business & Finance8 months ago
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    am on holidays now and I am not enjoying it because my girlfriend upset me and is being hard to deal with. What should I do I tried to talk with her but she wouldn’t listen. How to enjoy the holidays and focus on enjoying the day myself without worrying about her. I have a free day today as she just went out and said she will be back later in the evening

    1 AnswerMental Health8 months ago
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    Got told off at work yesterday for making an incorrect mistake, and afterwards the person was being very pushy telling me to do this and that. It didn’t seem that serious but just an honest mistake. Today is my last day before going on leave for one month however I feel very upset over what happened yesterday that I keep thinking about it. Also feel very stressed as well. How should I get over this situation and focus on my work today and holidays tomorrow. Just feel sad and depressed because she told me off in front of a lot of people. Please kindly help, what should I do? Thanks  

    4 AnswersFriends9 months ago
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    Got told off at work yesterday for making an incorrect mistake, and afterwards the person was being very pushy telling me to do this and that. It didn’t seem that serious  but just an honest mistake. Today is my last day before going on leave for one month however I feel very upset over what happened yesterday that I keep thinking about it. Also feel very stressed as well. How should I get over this situation and focus on my work today and holidays tomorrow. Just feel sad and depressed because she told me off in front of a lot of people. Please kindly help, what should I do? Thanks  

    5 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment9 months ago
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    Got told off at work yesterday for making an incorrect mistake, and afterwards the person was being very pushy telling me to do this and that. Today is my last day before going on leave for one month however I feel very upset over what happened yesterday that I keep thinking about it. Also feel very stressed as well. How should I get over this situation and focus on my work today and holidays tomorrow. Just feel sad and depressed because she told me off in front of a lot of people. Please kindly help, what should I do? Thanks  

    3 AnswersMental Health9 months ago
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    Feeling very awful today at work I made a mistake by asking my colleague how to do something instead of my supervisor at work. Previously she said to ask her directly if I had anything work related and today she found out I have asked my colleague. We spoke on the phone and she ended up telling me off two times for asking my colleague and not consulting her. What should I do I feel very bad I am scared there will be something serious happen this time that she might report it to senior management, how should I get over this and focus on my work? Also what should I say to my supervisor if she tells me off again? How should I explain the situation and let her know I did it by accident asking my colleague. Thank you.

    Singles & Dating10 months ago
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    Today I made a concert booking for a friend and myself but found out that she only wanted centre row tickets but when I paid for tickets I could only get side views of the stadium. She asked me whether tickets were in the centre and this was her priority. Now I'm scared she won't go to concert with me because the viewing is on the sides. Should I still tell her now or just tell her when we meetup for concert tonight?

    2 AnswersFriends3 years ago
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    Today I made a concert booking for a friend and myself but found out that she only wanted centre row tickets but when I paid for tickets I could only get side views of the stadium. She asked me whether tickets were in the centre and this was her priority. Now I'm scared she won't go to concert with me because the viewing is on the sides. Should I still tell her now or just tell her when we meetup for concert tonight?

    1 AnswerMental Health3 years ago
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    Today I made a concert booking for a friend and myself but found out that she only wanted centre row tickets but when I paid for tickets I could only get side views of the stadium. She asked me whether tickets were in the centre and this was her priority. Now I'm scared she won't go to concert with me because the viewing is on the sides. Should I still tell her now or just tell her when we meetup for concert tonight?

    2 AnswersOther - Entertainment3 years ago
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    Tommorrow is the first time I'm going to a church with a friend of mine. My mum said she'll like to come with me as wellas she hasn't been to church in years. Should I ask her to come along with me or leave it? I'm scared with going to church with her because I'm a grown up adult now in my late 20's. Please help

    7 AnswersReligion & Spirituality3 years ago
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    There is a girl I like who I found out went to see beauty and the beast today. I want to ask her out again maybe to see the same movie next week. However I'm scared I'll get rejected because it is the same movie. How should I ask her out to see movie again without looking dumb. My real purpose is to ask her out, what should I say?

    Singles & Dating3 years ago
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    During the staff retreat yesterday the director mentioned to all staff that a receptionist roles was becoming available in the organisation. Today I went to the director to try to speak, what questions should I ask her and how should I express my interest strongly.

    Mental Health3 years ago
  • Urgent help required?

    During the staff retrrat yesterday the director mentioned to all staff that a receptionist roles was becoming available in the organisation. Today I went to the director to try to speak, what questions should I ask her and how should I express my interest strongly.

    2 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment3 years ago
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    During the staff retreatment yesterday the director mentioned to all staff that a receptionist roles was becoming available in the organisation. Today I went to the director to try to speak to her directly but she was very busy in a meetings. Another staff who is interested has already asked her. Did I damage my chances of getting the role by not asking immediately? Now I have to wait till Monday because I don't work the next couple of days.

    2 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment3 years ago
  • Urgent help required?

    During the staff retreatment yesterday the director mentioned to all staff that a receptionist roles was becoming available in the organisation. Today I went to the director to try to speak to her directly but she was very busy in a meetings. Another staff who is interested has already asked her. Did I damage my chances of getting the role by not asking immediately? Now I have to wait till Monday because I don't work the next couple of days.

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    Tonight I was walking home with a girl who I like from church, she ended up accidentally catching the wrong train with her and I told her to text me when she gets home. However after nearly 2 hours she still hasn't texted me back. Is she angry at me because I lead her on the wrong train. What should I say in a text to follow up with her.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
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    There's a girl I like at church I have had strong feelings for her the past 2 weeks and would like to ask if she would like to be my girlfriend. She has said openly to her friends she is looking for a boyfriend. Together we are at church, I want to ask her if I can tell her a secret in private and then reveal that I like her. Is this a good way? How should I ask her?

    2 AnswersMental Health4 years ago