• I messed up a relationship really badly and I need to stop thinking about it. Help?

    It’s a long story so I’ll simplify it as best as I can. I dated this girl (I’m a lesbian) for a while. We were best friends as well as a good couple, aside from a few rough spots. One time she ignored me while standing right next to me to the point where I cried in public and then she called me abusive for making her look bad, but we were fine the... show more
    It’s a long story so I’ll simplify it as best as I can. I dated this girl (I’m a lesbian) for a while. We were best friends as well as a good couple, aside from a few rough spots. One time she ignored me while standing right next to me to the point where I cried in public and then she called me abusive for making her look bad, but we were fine the rest of the time. One day she texts me and says that she can’t be in a relationship anymore. We have a phone conversation where she says she wants to be friends but that I’m dragging her down. So I give it a week and I start talking to her again. (Asking for my clothes back, ect.) and she is acting all cold and distant. I ended up sending her a regrettable message a few months later, and she cuts all communication. One year after the breakup, I still have questions haunting me. I figure I might as well message a mutual friend to see if she’d consider talking to me. Mutual tells me she calls me a psychopath abuser. (I’ve been tested; I’m not a psychopath.) So I message her and tell her to stop spreading rumors and tell her I’m open to talk. She says I’m damaging her emotionally and that if I ever contact her or her friends again “there will be consiquences.” It’s been a few weeks since then and I feel like total garbage. Any advice for moving on?
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 4 months ago
  • I think I’m attracted to Chris Chan? Help?

    I’m an autistic teenage girl. I’ve been really into learning about Chris Chan, including the details about her sex life. The more I learn about her, the more I want to be with her. I’ve always been weirdly attracted to ugly, pathetic people, but it’s never been this strong. I know I’m too young to be in a relationship with Chris, but I daydream... show more
    I’m an autistic teenage girl. I’ve been really into learning about Chris Chan, including the details about her sex life. The more I learn about her, the more I want to be with her. I’ve always been weirdly attracted to ugly, pathetic people, but it’s never been this strong. I know I’m too young to be in a relationship with Chris, but I daydream about it frequently. I don’t want to troll her or anything. In fact, I would gladly marry her if it wouldn’t ruin my social life. Please help me snap out of it.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 5 months ago