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  • Why should I do about this money situation with my father?

    I am one of those people her were impacted by covid in terms of job security. Recently I finally found a job. I currently live with my father who receives a fixed amount of pay each month in disability. Every month he runs out of money and asks me for enough money to get him by until his next check. I don’t mind since i am living with him and he pays electricity and water so I feel I should be able to help he where he falls short. Like I recently paid 1,000 in taxes on the house. However it bothers me a little bit because he only has to bills to pay and we eat out a lot and I pay for his food plus we have help when it comes to food.  So I just don’t know where his money goes he only has the water and electric bill cuz the house paid off and food is taken care of. He spends a lot of money on cigarettes and other substances and it irritates me because I’m not trying to give u money for cigarettes . Plus’s I buy cat food for all these cats that he feeds to aide in pest control. Now my uncle is living with us and he too is disabled and gets a check so hopefully he can help out. Am I right to feel this way?

    4 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 week ago
  • Was my doctor right to be irritated with me? What could he have done better?

    Went and some my doctor to go over the results of an X-ray and mri because I have arm pain in my right arm . I have a shallow posterior disc herniation on one part of my spine and then I have a nerve that is causing an indentation on my spine ( pressed nerve) I was in a car accident and knew I had a herniated disc in my neck and back. My doctor seemed irritated with me because he said I did not tell him I was in a car accident 3 years ago and that if he had know this would have changed they we he approached my situation. Thing is I did tell him, but in yesterday’s visit he acted like I did not . Do u think their was a underline reason why he was irritated? He referred me to a neuro surgeon 

    Injuries1 month ago
  • Why was my doctor irritated? What could he have done differently?

    Went and some my doctor to go over the results of an X-ray and mri because I have arm pain in my right arm . I have a shallow posterior disc herniation on one part of my spine and then I have a nerve that is causing an indentation on my spine ( pressed nerve) I was in a car accident and knew I had a herniated disc in my neck and back. My doctor seemed irritated with me because he said I did not tell him I was in a car accident 3 years ago and that if he had know this would have changed they we he approached my situation.  Thing is I did tell him, but in yesterday’s visit he acted like I did not . Do u think their was a underline reason why he was irritated? He referred me to a neuro surgeon 

  • What is causes my arm pain? How can I fix it?

    Been having pain in right arm for two weeks and it feels like I tore a muscle but I don’t do any strenuous physical activity.  I have had a xray and mri done and will meet with my doctor next week to discuss results and I am on Ib profen 600mg three times a day. I was in a car accident two  years ago and have muscle tenderness all over my body. When people press down with even a little bit of pressure it hurts. I have herniated disk in my neck and back and doc thinks pain I am experiencing is tied to my neck 

    3 AnswersPain & Pain Management1 month ago
  • What should I do with these jeans? ?

    Bought some jeans from fashion nova and they were too small so I returned them. Between paying for the shipping label which was 7.99and the package cost to print, it cost me 11 dollars to return my items. The items I bought cost 89 bucks. I then got my store credit because they do not do exchange or refunds, which took a month for me to get with corona virus and everting and reorder only to find out that now the jeans are too big. Should I return them again and cut corners by printing the label and the library and providing my own shipping  label which then returning would only cost me 7.99 or should I sell the jeans. P.s.  I looked up tutorials on YouTube for how to shrink jeans and I tried boiling them and then putting them in the dryer and it did not work. Can anyone suggest another method?

  • What is wrong with me?

    For the second time I woke up feeling like I had a hang over. I worked up a country or days ago feeling dizzy and when I hold my head down and hold it up , the room spends and I have to hold on to the wall to walk. My heart rate also went up and to some degree my hand shakes. This has happened twice. Second time I was on my cycle. I can not remember if I was on my cycle the 1st time.  My insurance does not take effect until July 1st but I will go see a doctor but also I have this cyst like structure on my inner thigh and it make the left side of my groin hurt 

    Women's Health5 months ago
  • What is wrong with me?

    For the second time I woke up feeling like I had a hang over. I worked up a country or days ago feeling dizzy and when I hold my head down and hold it up , the room spends and I have to hold on to the wall to walk. My heart rate also went up and to some degree my hand shakes. This has happened twice. Second time I was on my cycle. I can not remember if I was on my cycle the 1st time.  My insurance does not take effect until July 1st but I will go see a doctor but also I have this cyst like structure on my inner thigh and it make the left side of my groin hurt 

    1 AnswerWomen's Health5 months ago
  • How to get rid of dark areas/spots on the face?

    I used raw black soap and it caused my skin to get irritated and caused dark spots on my face. How do i Get rid of these dark spots?

    Skin Conditions5 months ago
  • I did not get the correct amount of unemployment under the CARE act who can I call to rectify this situation?

    I was on unemployment when the CARE act passed and by the time it was distributed, my benefits were exhausted. From everything I read, it says I am suppose to get an extension and an increased amount. I was told to certify to keep my account accurate which I did. Yesterday I received some unemployment benefits, but not the extra 600 bucks. I have left two messages with the local unemployment office and with the commissioner, Who else can I call or email to rectify the situation?

    2 AnswersLaw & Ethics7 months ago
  • Is this guy likely to call?

    I know this guy from a place me and him use to work. We got in contact and after talking on the phone for the first time for 3 hrs, we decided to meet in person and catch up. With everything being shutdown due to COVID 19, we decided to meet at the park. We walked and talked and ate sushi. He works the closing shift at his job. He has not called yet.. what do u think?

    Singles & Dating7 months ago
  • Should I renew my class c license or just just pay for a replacement?

    I have had a change of address so I wanted to update my driver's license. When I went to pay it offered for me to renew it for 8 more years or to simply pay for a replacement. The renewal cost 27 dollars and the replacement 5 dollars. My license expires in 2 years.

    4 AnswersInsurance & Registration7 months ago
  • Should I give my dad the money?

    I was fired from my job and had to move in with my dad. The only bills he has are utilities and he cleans the house. I have a good bit of money saved up and dont have to worry bout paying for my bills for a while. He is on a fixed income and , should I give it to him?it seems at the end of every month he needs money. So far I have given him $300. Today he asked me for $60

    25 AnswersPersonal Finance8 months ago
  • What do you think about this guy?

    I started communication with this guy who has a very big following on youtube. He said he wanted me to be his lady friend and was asking me questions about my dating history, acting like he took an interest in me. After less than a week of knowing me he asked me what I was doing for the rest of the week and told me i should visit him. He lives like 10 hours away. I texted and asked was he going to fly me out and he didn't respond then I said I could pay for my own ticket but it would be better if he came to where I was. He did not respond to or acknowledge my texts he just kept talking to me like I never texted him that. I feel like since he was the man and invited me he should of paid for my ticket plus he has more than enough money to do this. I did NOT pay for a ticket and ended up never meeting him in person. Then I notice after this his communication with me changed, he was not communicating with me as frequently. So I tested this thought out and said I am not going to call or text him and see if he reaches out to me. That was the beginning of if i did not contact him, I did not hear from him. I feel like at the end of the day he wanted to have relations and everything he was saying was BS and thats why he wasn't trying to pay for a ticket because he looked at me as a potential booty call. I feel like he did not respond to my texts regarding the ticket because obviously the answer to whether not he would fly me out was no.

    3 AnswersEtiquette9 months ago
  • Fired for poor work conduct, was it justified? What should I do? Serious answers only.?

    I worked as a recruiter for a company. One day the HR Coordinator called me in her office and told me she was annoyed with me. I asked her why and basically it was because I asked her for some information that I already had. So I calmly explained to her that it was a misunderstanding. Next day two applicants walking in wanting to work forklift day shift and I explained to them as the HR Coordinator stood there that we are currently hiring for forklift nightshift positions. The HR coordinator and I go behind closed doors way from the applicants and she tells me the conversation I had in front of the applicants was unprofessional I explained to her she misunderstood me. When then went in her office because i did not want to talk in the hall way. At some point she raised her voice to me and I told her respectfully she was not going to talk to me in a condescending tone.She then asked me to get my hands out her face, however my hands were not in her face, She then proceeded to call our boss in front of me and talk about me to the boss in front of me and asked me to leave her office. The boss got her and my side of the story and next day I was fired. They were no witnesses that could say I acted unprofessional because I did not. The hr coordinator and my boss have a mother daughter relationship via my bosse's own words. I feel like what happened was unfair. I never raised my voice, used vulgar language or got emotional. She was rude to me. I had only been on the job for 24 days

    6 AnswersLaw & Ethics10 months ago
  • Can I file a complaint with the equal employment opportunity commission or sue for discrimination?

    I was fired after 24 days on the job and I believe I was not properly trained. I sent an email to my bosses boss outlining why I think this. I am a young black woman. Around the same time I came to the company they hired an older white male for an office manager and gave him plenty hands on training but I was not properly trained. The hr coordinator who is like a daughter to my former boss got rude with me on 12/23 and 12/24 I told her she was not going to speak to me like that .we had christmas off and then on 12/26 I was fired for performance 

    10 AnswersLaw & Ethics10 months ago
  • Got fired after 24 days on the job.. any advice? I am depressed.?

    First week on the job my boss takes me, my peer out to lunch and asks my peer to describe her as a boss. My peer mentioned how my boss will guide you. but wont hold your hand. My boss asked me did I have any questions. I said how I did not need her to hold my hand but in regards to the excel formula she wanted me to create I did need her help with that. She said she was not going to help me. Second week she gave me 30 people's resumes and asked me to call them to book interviews. I called 14 of them because I was researching and getting my sources together for the source tracker she asked me to create. Based on my convos with her I thought that was my focus. She calls me in the office second week and says I am not doing a good job. How was I not able to call 30 people in one day and what did I do all day and all week. From there I said to myself I need to pick up the pace and when I get resumes to put that above everything and call all applicants. I ran out of resumes and as requested, I emailed her for more. Her respond via email was that she found it hard to believe that I called all 30 applicants as she sat at the front desk. She asked me to develop a source tracker and said show her how I thought it should look and this was my opportunity. I tried to get with her about how the source tracker should look but she shot me down. When I presented it to her she said this was not what she wanted and how was I so far off the mark. I thought she meant be creative.

    9 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment10 months ago
  • The Bible says Jesus walked on water but did anyone stop to think that maybe Jesus walked on ice?

    Maybe the ancient people just interpreted this as walking on water.

    27 AnswersReligion & Spirituality10 months ago