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  • How to get 95 percent mortage?

    I've heard if all I need is 5 percent deposit does that mean they would accept 7000 deposit on a 140,000 flat even if my annual income is low? like im only going to make 19'000 a but I heard I could still get a deposit I this situation.

    6 AnswersRenting & Real Estate1 year ago
  • Should I let her choose where to go?

    Reason is I'm travelling to see a girl in a town I don't know but we both agree we would have a drink. I asked her if there was any decent bars near by and she said there was. I would like to see her and pick her up but going somewhere Im not familar with would be weird.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • Why would a friend stop contacting me?

    I had a friend for years we would go out and drink a lot(I admit I drank more than him) and we played sports. He would always arrange to meet up. We were friends for about 7 years then xmas 2009 he was acting a bit different on the phone. I was very drunk one xmas eve but I wasn't the type of person to get in trouble, we were also mid twenties and it was normal to have these nights sometimes.

    He messaged me a few months after christmas then stopped answering his phone. I think I only called him twice but then once a bumped into him and he was with another mate even though he had ignored me days before I just thought it was best to leave him alone. He maybe sent one group message to me which I ignored and that was the last I heard from him(2010) until I bumped into him a few years later. Then he never suggested meeting up or anything. It makes me feel as if he disliked me for years or something?

    3 AnswersFriends3 years ago
  • No sexual experience what to do?

    I'm a 33. I had a long relationship in my late teens that lasted a few years and had some decent sex. I did develop ED at some point and it's have mental/half physical.Later I literally dated but never got anywhere with them. Now I'm at age where I feel its wrong to be nervous about sex.

    At the moment I don't live alone(live with family) so taking someone back is a bit awkward but even then I feel deep down these women who are suddenly approaching will be turned off when they see my nervousness and inexperience. I didn't feel this way when I was in the relationship but obviously it's been so long that I feel these girls will be able to tell I've not had it for time or that I'm nervous.

    I work in a club so most of these girls can get it somewhere else if **** goes wrong. I don't do online dating, think it's a joke as I don't get any replies but in the club girls are hitting on me left right and centre. I had a old coworker pretty 19yr old in my car last night kiss closed her near her house she wanted to go back to mine I told her I had a girlfriend just because I didn't have a place to smash/worried about getting it up.

    I just don't want to look like a old virgin, because I lost mine years ago but it don't feel that way.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating3 years ago
  • Should I go on a date with her?

    Met this girl in aa club and got her number while I awas working. She left with another guy and turned her head away from me as he pointed and smirked before getting in his car.

    She text me next day and I said I saw her but she said she knew the guy but I don't believe it as she came to the club with friends and left with only him. She said it would be nice to meet up at some point but I don't know. Now she is texting me everyday!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating3 years ago
  • Should I continue working with cousin or move on?

    I been working with my cousin at some place for about a year. He s always watching what I am doing and when I speak up in meetings usually makes noises under his breath. I been very cordial with him but he s quite wish washy. I m a lot older than him and top it off I usually drop him off when one of his mates flops him. Originally when I offered him a lift he rolled his eyes and told me he s got a lift now I come in handy.

    I now miss the days of coming to work and it being my own haven, not having family grudges/draman brought into work. He s cold outside of work also, which is weird since I spent a lot of time with him as he grew up.

    2 AnswersFamily3 years ago
  • Should I continue working with cousin or move on?

    I been working with my cousin at some place for about a year. He s always watching what I am doing and when I speak up in meetings usually makes noises under his breath. I been very cordial with him but he s quite wish washy. I m a lot older than him and top it off I usually drop him off when one of his mates flops him. Originally when I offered him a lift he rolled his eyes and told me he s got a lift now I come in handy.

    I now miss the days of coming to work and it being my own haven, not having family grudges/draman brought into work. He s cold outside of work also, which is weird since I spent a lot of time with him as he grew up.

  • Why is there a delay on some platforms with WWE Network?

    I noticed some platforms have live stream playback with a delay and some do not. In other words, one feed is real time while others are 10-15 seconds behind. Why is this?

    1 AnswerSoftware4 years ago
  • What is wrong with my brain?

    Started 9 years ago. I've never took any medication because I feared for weight gain(which happened anyway) and I didn't want to become dependant on pills. In 2004 I had the greatest year ever going out with friends and meeting lots of women. I smoked weed in early 2005 and then after only two months of doing that I started feeling weird. I felt really down, really anxious...very irritable and I couldn't look at anyone for long or it caused huge anxiety. I had fear of losing my mother and I started hallucinating that something bad would happen to her during our conversations.

    I kept staring at peoples necks as if I was irritated by them and "imagined" people attacked in that area with a sharp object. It's weird because everything else about me was fine and now I'm alot more calm but still seem to really stare at peoples necks but feel more calmer unless I'm tired.

    I work 4 days a week and sometimes it feels better to be around people and other times I can't stand it because I want to withdraw. I don't want to really take medication and I feel better with alcohol. I find myself at times at peace as in I know I'm a loving and good person. It's just when I anxious and irritable with headaches.

    2 AnswersMental Health4 years ago
  • How to put my supervisor in his place?

    I feel like I'm being harrased by the supervisor at work. He wil be friendly one minute and then he trys to give me advice,patronises me when I've been doing the job for over a decade.

    He also turns a blind eye when other people are making huge mistakes. He puts his favorites in the better positions and doesn't even monitor them. Bottom line is, he keeps forcing advice onto me about personal life and work life. He starts off liking he's having a friendly conversations, brings up something he's acheived and then when you make a comment or show him tell him something he starts giving unwanted advice. I feel he won't leave me alone to do my job and doesn't take charge of the team. Just a fake guy I have to put up with.

    4 AnswersPsychology4 years ago
  • Was this rude of me or not?

    I met a female celeb a few weeks ago at a meet and greet it was in a pub but she was up and about drinking and we were allowed to have a free photo opp with her. Although I'm a big guy I was shy so I waited for awhile to get a picture. I called her name in a friendly way while she was at the bar and then got a pic. I was nervous and a bit tipsy so I turned to her and she nodded and so did I and she turned back around again.

    I was let down she never said anything to me, and didn't give eye contact just nodded with her eyes half closed. I think she expected me to say thanks or something but I was shy and she turned back around so quickly.

    3 AnswersEtiquette4 years ago
  • Was this rude of me or not?

    I met a female celeb a few weeks ago at a meet and greet it was in a pub but she was up and about drinking and we were allowed to have a free photo opp with her. Although I'm a big guy I was shy so I waited for awhile to get a picture. I called her name in a friendly way while she was at the bar and then got a pic. I was nervous and a bit tipsy so I turned to her and she nodded and so did I and she turned back around again.

    I was let down she never said anything to me, and didn't give eye contact just nodded with her eyes half closed. I think she expected me to say thanks or something but I was shy and she turned back around so quickly.

    6 AnswersEtiquette4 years ago
  • Was this rude of me or not?

    I met a female celeb a few weeks ago at a meet and greet it was in a pub but she was up and about drinking and we were allowed to have a free photo opp with her. Although I'm a big guy I was shy so I waited for awhile to get a picture. I called her name in a friendly way while she was at the bar and then got a pic. I was nervous and a bit tipsy so I turned to her and she nodded and so did I and she turned back around again. I was let down she never said anything to me, and didn't give eye contact just nodded with her eyes half closed. I think she expected me to say thanks or something but I was shy and she turned back around so quickly.

    1 AnswerPsychology4 years ago
  • I got a picture with a celebrity but why didn't they speak to me?

    It was a meet and greet in a bar and we were allowed to approach them at different times to get a pic. They were also doing group shots with people and I was snapping a few shots with my phone which they didn't seem to mind but the photographer gave me a funny look.

    I had a chat with a few fans then found the celebrity I wanted, and was excited and think I knocked over a drinkthat was on the floor but the celeb didn't see that even though the guy who took our picture quickly asked if it was my drink. Anyway I got my picture with the female celeb she posed and when I turned to look at her she looked round to me and slightly nooded with her eyes half shut but didn't say anything. I got the impression she thought I was drunk or something but I was more star struck than anything.

    3 AnswersCelebrities4 years ago
  • How to put someone in their place?

    I need to find ways to do it as there is a few people at my work who are bugging me. I'm a big guy who just wants to get on with my job but my supervisor keeps trying to annoy me pocking me and patting me on the back patronising me also he randomly laughs.

    A few times a ignored this behavior and mocked him when I had the chance and then I just got on with the job and started being really polite and it worked for awhile but then he seemed to start trying to piss me off again and even impeding my work.

    Psychology4 years ago
  • Am I wrong for putting people in their place?

    So at work a lot of people annoy me. I feel like I want to get on with most people but if someone upsets me I make a plan to put them in their place the next time I see them. Is that weird? I mean I either ignore them or just find a way to do it for "revenge"

    To be fair I only do this if I feel people are trying to put me in my place or disrespect me.

    3 AnswersPsychology4 years ago
  • Why is it when I'm nice people treat me like crap?

    When I'm my nice self people treat me like crap. When I get cocky and treat people quite horrible they still at first try to treat me bad but then most back off and respect me more yet when I'm nice they never respect me. I can be ignorant and unfriendly very easily I don't like listening to people to cut them off quick but I like to be friendly and not insult people.

    1 AnswerPsychology4 years ago
  • Best place for solo travel?

    I'm a male and really tall. I want to travel alone but don't want people to think I'm a weirdo.

    7 AnswersOther - Destinations4 years ago