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  • My guy friend likes me? Now what?

    We have been close friends the entire year here at university. This past week, we slept together almost every night (no sex, just cuddling) and have been getting more romantic with eacother/doing couple things. His friends told me that he would be interested in a long term relationship with me next year but didn’t want to say anything because it could have jeopardized our friendship. (He doesn’t know that his friends said he liked me and he doesn’t know for sure if I like him back). He’s now back home on the other side of the country for the rest of the summer so I won’t see him in person for 4 months! I’ve got his number, we text, share stuff on social media, etc. He’s been texting me everyday. He’s total husband material and a gentleman. I don’t want to lose our friendship or potential relationship. What do I do now? How can I handle not being able to see him for so long?

    Ps. I’ll be super busy over the summer and I have a lot of hobbies but I will miss him :(

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • My guy friend confessed his feelings for me... now he’s gone. What do I do?!?

    We have been close friends the entire year here at university. This past week, we slept together almost every night (no sex, just cuddling) and have been getting more romantic with eacother. His friends also told me that he would be interested in a long term relationship with me next year but didn’t want to say anything because it could have jeopardized our friendship... he doesn’t know that his friends said he liked me and he doesn’t know for sure if I like him back (just in case things don’t work out). He’s now back home on the other side of the country for the rest of the summer so I won’t see him in person for 4 months! I’ve got his number, we text, share stuff on social media, etc. He’s total husband material and a gentleman. I don’t want to lose our friendship or potential relationship. What do I do now? How can I handle not being able to see him for so long?

    Pa. I’ll be super busy over the summer and I have a lot of hobbies but I will miss him :(

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Should I tell him I like him?

    I’ve liked this guy for 3 months now. He works on my university floor as a supervisor (aka. His job is to help us if we need anything, make sure everyone is alive, etc.) We get along really well, he’s my type (a little shy) but super cute! So far, we’ve watched a movie alone together and went for lunch together at the cafeteria but he did seem a little worried the other supervisors would see him. We also talk to each other every day and I’m always the one to end the conversation. We just get along very well! :) I’d like to hang out with him even more but he’s not allowed to date students on his floor. So for now, I’ve just been super friendly and invite him to things. What should I do in this situation? Would it be weird to ask him to hang out more alone? How should I act around him? Anything helps, thanks.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Should I ask him out? How?

    I’ve liked this guy for a few months now. He works on my floor as a supervisor (aka. His job is to help us if we need anything, make sure everyone is alive, etc.) We get along really well, talk a lot, he’s my type, and super cute!

    I’d like to get to know him even more but part of me wonders of its inappropriate because he’s technically in a position of superiority. Is it inappropriate to pursue him? Should I initiate anything? If so, what do I do? Thanks :)

    Ps. I am a 1st year university student and he is a 2nd year (so only 1 year older than me).

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • I like my residence supervisor. Should I ask him out? (He’s only 1 year older than me)?

    I’ve liked this guy for a few months now. He works on my floor as a Residence supervisor (aka. His job is to help us if we need anything, make sure everyone is alive, etc.) We get along really well, he’s my type, and super cute!

    I’d like to get to know him even more but part of me wonders of its inappropriate because he’s technically in a position of superiority. Is it inappropriate to pursue him? Should I initiate anything? If so, what do I do? Thanks :)

    Ps. I am a 1st year university student and he is a 2nd year (so only 1 year older than me).

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Does he LIKE me?

    I met this guy (along with his other friends) at university about a week ago. This guy and I are already great friends: we walk to class together, sit next to each other, text, etc. He is very polite and chivalrous with me and it's really cute and everyone else has told em he's a great guy. He holds every single door open for me and lets me go first, makes good conversation when walking to class, stands extra close to me, and texts me a lot (always joking and says haha a lot, etc.). These are good signs right?

    Yesterday in class, he started "accidentally" brushing up against me. Not in a sexual way, he just had his arm up on the arm rest and our arms were touching. I pulled away a few times and then went back yet he didn't move. Guys: what does this mean? Also, there's been a few times that he would show me something on his laptop and whisper so I had to lean in close to him to see it. He hasn't done these things for our other friends. Do you think he is doing this because he is a nice guy or actually likes me? Its hard to tell because he's shy and quiet. (Ps. I don't want to just ask him if he likes me because we are friends so that would make things weird). What do you think I should do/think of this situation?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Accidental touching, walks me to class.... Does this guy like me?

    I met this guy (along with his other friends) at university about a week ago. This guy and I are already great friends: we walk to class together, sit next to each other, text, etc. He is very polite and chivalrous with me and it's really cute. For example, he holds every single door open for me and lets me go first, makes good conversation when walking to class, stands extra close to me, and texts me a lot (always joking and says haha a lot, etc.). These are good signs right? Yesterday in class, he started "accidentally" touching me. He had his arm up on the arm rest and our arms were touching. I pulled away a few times and then went back yet he didn't move. What does this mean? Also, there's been a few times that he would show me something on his laptop and whisper so I had to lean in close to him to see it. Are these good signs? Should I take it that this guy likes me?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Is he interested in me or just being nice?

    I met this guy (along with his other guy/ girl friends) at university a few days ago. He is very polite and chivalrous. He:

    -He holds every single door open for me,

    -Lets me go first (even when he should have gone first)

    -Swipes his card so I didn't have to at every door

    -Texts me a lot (always joking and says haha a lot, etc.)

    -Walks with me to classes we have together.

    BUT... he doesn't talk much. :/

    He jokes, laughs, asks me some questions when I ask him things but he is a little quiet (not that that's bad, just a bit hard to read). I have only been around him two days now but I want to know where I stand with him. He's cute and I think I might like him but not sure if he's intreated or just being nice. None of the other friends did these things to me when I joined the group. He also only did those things for me, not the other girls in the group. Is it because I'm new? Should I take it that he's interested?

    Thanks! :)

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Ever since the party, my best friend has changed. What do I do?

    We have been best friends for 3 years now. We did everything together and I felt as if I could be myself around him. (He's gay and I'm a straight girl). About 2 weeks ago, my friend was invited to a party and got super super drunk...He never drinks and is against alcohol so I was shocked. He told me he would never get that drunk again and I believed him. Since then, he's been to two other parties and got drunk yet again and made some bad choices. Now, he's spending time with new friends, people he used to find "fake" and "mean". He's been dressing trashy and swears all the time now. Whenever we talk, he's always snark, passive aggressive and doesn't engage with me anymore. I asked him if he was okay but he got angry with me and ignored me the rest of the day. It's like he's a different person. I want my friend back, what should I do?

    3 AnswersFriends3 years ago
  • My crush saw me at my ugliest moment. What do I do now?

    There's this guy that I'm good friends with and have started to fall for. I think he likes me too so I decided to ask him out to the fair. It was going extremely well until, during the night show, I had to run to the bathroom and puke several times! I had gotten food poisoning and missed most of the show, leaving him alone at the show. Affer the show, he asked if I was feeling okay to go on a few last rides with him but I said I wasn't feeling well enough. He was understanding of the situation, tried to make me feel better, and offered to help but I still felt MORTIFIED because I like him. (Thankfully, I managed not to puke the whole way back home). I feel as if he was disappointed and a bit grossed out. Do you think this ruined my chances with him or made him not like me?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating3 years ago
  • How on earth does he remember all these things about me?

    My crush and I have been friends since kindergarten and he always brings up things I don't even remember telling him. For example, he'd say "didn't you read that same book in grade 5?" or "you told me --- in grade 2". He remembers everything I tell him, even from many years ago and he brings up things he remember me doing when we were young. He is really smart and good at memorizing so maybe he just has a great memory? Why would he remember all these tiny details about me? Is that just a friend thing?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating3 years ago
  • Why does he remember little things about me?

    My crush and I have been friends since kindergarten and he always brings up things I don't even remember telling him. For example, he'd say "I thought you didn't like Christmas music" or "didn't you read that same book in grade 5?" He remembers everything I tell him, even from many years ago and he brings up things he remember me doing when we were young. He is really smart and good at memorizing so maybe he just has a great memory? Why would he remember all these tiny details about me? Is that just a friend thing?

    Singles & Dating3 years ago
  • I puked on my friend at the fair! Does this ruin my chances with him?

    There's this guy that I'm good friends with and have started to fall for. I decided to ask him out to the fair. It was going extremely well until, during the night show, I had to run to the bathroom and puke several times! I had gotten food poisoning and missed most of the show, leaving him alone at the show. Affer the show, he asked if I was feeling okay to go on this two person swing ride with a view of the city at night but I said I don't think I could. He was understanding of the situation, tried to make me feel better, and offered to help but I still felt MORTIFIED. Thankfully, I managed not to puke the whole way back on transit but I feel as if he was disappointed and a bit grossed out. Do you think this ruined my chances with him or made him not like me?

    2 AnswersFriends3 years ago
  • Why doesn't he make an effort if we always have so much fun together?

    We have hung out together just the two of us many times, going out to movies, dinner, etc. We always have a great time and spend 6+ hours together at a time. We have been good friends since pre school and when we hangout alone, we laugh, he asks me very personal questions, remembers every little thing I say, and tells me things he doesn't tell others-even though he's an introvert. He asks me about guys in my life and gets defensive when I bring any of them up. I have had strong feelings for him my whole life and sense he may feel the same way on our "dates" because there is definitely chemistry! The problem is that he never texts me (or anyone) so the only way we hang out is if I initiate it. Even then, he sucks at texting so nothing gets done! Is he just not into me and only wants to be friends? Thanks 😘

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating3 years ago
  • How long before he asks me out?

    So there's this guy... he's in one of my classes at school and a few days ago, he asked for my number. Ever since I have it to him, he's been really flirty with me. For exemple, he'd sit really close to me (past my personals space bubble) and he'd say he likes girls like me, etc. Yesterday, he followed me around the halls and found me with one of my guy friends reading a romantic Shakespeare play. He struck up a conversation with me and ended up holding my book between us so we could read it out loud, super close together. (My guy friend asked what just happened aha) He's in grade 12 and I'm in grade 11 so I'm not sure how I feel about him yet but he's cute! He's been super nice and sweet and I'm wondering if he'll ask me out soon. Do you think he will ask me out soon?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Why is my crush trying to befriend my gay best friend?

    I have a crush on one of my guy friend and we've been friends for over 16 years. I have a gay best friend who I am constantly texting, hanging out with, etc so I thought that the two of them should meet. When when the 3 of us hung out, my crush was acting so weird and defensive towards my gay friend. He'd make jokes and was acting llike a rude alpha male. I was under the impression that the two guys hated each other after that day! Now, my gay friend says that he gets texts from my crush and my crush is trying to become his friend.

    ---I thought he hated my gay friend! Why is my crush now trying to become friends with him?

    1 AnswerFriends4 years ago
  • Why is my (crush) guy friend trying to become friends with my other friends?

    I have a crush on my best guy friend with whom I've been pretty close friends with for over 16 years. I have a gay best best friend who I am constantly texting, hanging out with, etc so I thought that the two of them should meet. When my guy friend, gay best friend, and I hung out, my crush was acting so weird and defensive towards my gay friend. Sorta like an alpha male who thought he was better than everyone else. I was under the impression that the two guys hated each other after that day! Now, my gay friend says that he gets texts from my crush and my crush is trying to become his friend. Long story short: I thought he hated my gay friend! Why is my crush now trying to become friends with my friends?

    1 AnswerFriends4 years ago
  • Why does this guy remember all this about me?

    We've been friends since kindergarten and he always brings up things I don't even remember telling him. For example, he'd say "I thought you didn't like Christmas music" or "didn't you read that same book in grade 5?" He remembers everything I tell him, even from many years ago (significant or not). He is really smart so maybe he just has a great memory? Why does he keep track of all these little things about me even if they are insignificant?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • He kept saying "because I'm a gentleman" and then smile at me playfully after doing these things. Why does he do that?

    My best guy friend and I went out to dinner and movie and walked around the mall. We didn't specify if it was a date but those 6 hours we spent together felt like it. He'd share his popcorn with me, let me redo when I messed up while playing pool, pay for the extra tax when we split dinner, etc. He kept saying "because I'm a gentleman" and then smile at me playfully after doing these things. Why does he do that? Is he implying something?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Why does my guy friend remember every little detail about me?

    We've been fairly close friends since kindergarten and he always brings up things I don't even remember telling him. For example, he'd say "I thought you didn't like Christmas music" or "didn't you read that same book in grade 5?" He remembers everything I tell him, even from many years ago (significant or not). He is really smart so maybe he just has a great memory? Why does he keep track of all these little things about me?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago