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  • My boyfriend is really messy and I'm not sure what to do. ?

       I'm 26 years old and just recently moved in with my bf who is 25. We have been back together for about 8 months now. We have dated in the past and we have known each other sense we where teenagers. I thought it would be a good idea to mive in with him. I knew he was messy but I thought maybe he would start to clean up a bit once I moved in. 

       He barely does the dishes and we have a dish washer and he can't even rinse his dish of and put it in the dish washer. We he has cigarettes and tobacco all over our coffee table because he takes straight tobacco bong ribs wich I find disgusting. He'll drink half pints of cheap vodka everyday. He won't even clean his closet out so I can have a place to hang up my clothes. I've been living off the floor out of a tote for the past 3 months. He calls off sick from work and shows up late there everyday. 

      At this point I give up. I'm letting the dishes pile up and I just don't care anymore. His bathroom was absolutely disgusting when I first moved in and I made the decision to clean it. There was black mold on the bottom of the walls and bath tub. Even still some mold on the ceiling I can't reach to. I've tried talking to him and every time I do he turns it into a fight and gets defensive. I'm not sure what to do. I can't afford my own place and I don't want to have to move back in with my parents

    17 AnswersCleaning & Laundry2 months ago
  • I really really like this guy and he is amazing, but there is just one problem. HELP!?

    So I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and I really like him. He has a good job, is very good looking, extremely sweet, spoils me a ton and treats me well, but there is just one issue....he's terrible in bed! I'm 25 and sex is pretty important to me in a relationship and I have a pretty high sex drive as well. This could honestly be an issue later down the line if i don't speak up...but how do I do so with out hurting his feelings? He is terrible at dirty talk and cums with in like 5 minutes. He fingers me better than he ***** me. The way he thrusts is bad and I just don't enjoy it and most of the time I avoid sex with him. What do I do!? Please help!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • How do I talk to him about this?

    This is kind of personal, but I really need some advice. I just started seeing a guy and I really like him and he really likes me, but there is just one thing. He s can not last long in bed. He finishes in like 2 or 5 minutes. It really upsets me. He does try and make up for it by returning the favor in other ways, but bad sex is kind of a deal breaker for me. I do really like him and I want to eventually be his girlfriend, but it s just this one issue. How do I talk to him about this without hurting his feelings? And what can he do to make himself last longer? Should I just tell him he needs to jack off more? Lol, but for real i could use some advice.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 year ago
  • I am 25 and single. I think I am a very attractive young lady. I have amazing goals ahead of me. I work very hard and I graduate beauty?

    College here soon. I am having a hard time dating. I am really not sure why. I have been trying the tinder and bumble thing, but it's just not working out. I go out here and there, but don't have a lot of time for it. Going to beauty college I am surrounded by mainly women and the place I work at is mainly woman, so I don't ever get much of a chance of meeting men. Any advice?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • I need some advice lol. My car had a flat tire and a guy fixed it for me. We exchanged numbers so he could get his jack back. He was very?

    attractive and I felt that he was attracted to me as well. I was excited I met him. He was handsome, very nice, and super helpful with my tire! I was thinking about texting him, but I felt kind of weird being the first one to text him so I waited and....no text. It has now been 2 weeks sense this has happened and well I just can t stop thinking about him. Do you think it would be weird or "creepy" if I texted him? Or should I just leave it be and let him maybe one day get a hold of me?

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago