• Why do some people, don't like speaking when they wake up?

    I feel the same... and I know others who expirence the same feeling.
    I feel the same... and I know others who expirence the same feeling.
    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • Serious question: Is it okay to go your whole life without someone and dying a virgin?

    Best answer: I think this is the kind of thoughts you have when you're young. It seems like you'll never meet anyone and you'll die old and alone. There's several problems with this kind of thinking, and you realize it when you're older. First, this is called "catastrophizing." That means that... show more
    Best answer: I think this is the kind of thoughts you have when you're young. It seems like you'll never meet anyone and you'll die old and alone. There's several problems with this kind of thinking, and you realize it when you're older.

    First, this is called "catastrophizing." That means that when you're young you think everything is a catastrophe!!! OMG! If I don't have someone right now, I'm going to die alone! In other words, you're making a big catastrophe about it.

    The truth is that you will probably find someone. In fact, there will probably be quite a few people in your life. You probably won't die a virgin, unless you want that. Things may seem desperate now, but they won't be later.

    Second, the truth is that even if you find someone, that magic perfect someone, you still have about a 50% chance of dying without them. In every couple, someone goes first. So the other person is left by themselves. But, the good point is, that still doesn't mean that the second person dies alone. They won't have their one true love, sure, but they might be surrounded by children or grandchildren.

    Third, life isn't about the last moment of your life. It's about everything that happens in between. It's not "dying alone" -- after all, you might fall down at your home and die alone, but it's not that, it's whether there was someone there the rest of the time.

    Anyway, some people want to be alone, and for them it's desirable. Others want to be with people. Chances are, if you want to be with people, you'll find someone to be with.

    So, yeah, I vote with the "it's okay to die alone" crowd. I just don't think that means you'll spend all your years alone.
    18 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are narcissists possessed by the devil?

    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it possible to be addicted to hugs?

    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • I like to choke myself?...?

    If you’re gonna troll, f^ck off So first of all, I’m not trying to hurt myself..I’m not depressed I swear lmfao It just gives me a sexual tingling feeling. I just wrap my hand around my throat and apply pressure, and imagine someone else is doing it. I’m only 16 so is that weird?...
    If you’re gonna troll, f^ck off So first of all, I’m not trying to hurt myself..I’m not depressed I swear lmfao It just gives me a sexual tingling feeling. I just wrap my hand around my throat and apply pressure, and imagine someone else is doing it. I’m only 16 so is that weird?...
    9 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Is it mental to have sex w an animal?

    Like ppl do this and its more common than u thinl. but then byber are bad??? ummmmm
    Like ppl do this and its more common than u thinl. but then byber are bad??? ummmmm
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • I’m going to kill my self?

    my grades are plummeting and i hate my existence my paresnts cause on me verbal and physical abuse and anxiety i’m better of dead i have no genuine friendships and nothing seems to be going good in my life so this is me letting it all out but good bye.
    my grades are plummeting and i hate my existence my paresnts cause on me verbal and physical abuse and anxiety i’m better of dead i have no genuine friendships and nothing seems to be going good in my life so this is me letting it all out but good bye.
    8 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Should i commit suicide?

    Life has always been hard for me but now i feel like giving up...all this.Nothing is interesting when i wake up i dont want to do anything...I force myself to live.I am trapped and i cant get out of this situation.I just want to rest in peace. And what is the best way to do it...?? I dont have a gun.
    Life has always been hard for me but now i feel like giving up...all this.Nothing is interesting when i wake up i dont want to do anything...I force myself to live.I am trapped and i cant get out of this situation.I just want to rest in peace. And what is the best way to do it...?? I dont have a gun.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Poll: what is the scariest thing ever?

    Best answer: Knowing that people are people. The people who committed the Holocaust, the perpetrators of the Cambodian Killing Fields, and the betrayers of the Russian Dekulakization, are just like your neighbors, coworkers, and friends.
    Best answer: Knowing that people are people. The people who committed the Holocaust, the perpetrators of the Cambodian Killing Fields, and the betrayers of the Russian Dekulakization, are just like your neighbors, coworkers, and friends.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Feeling really bad after meeting with my therapist?

    So im just a teenager with problems and for the longest time i've just kept them to myself but at the end of last year i decided to get help so ever since then i've seen a therapist. But i just feel like our session are always so weird and bad. To begin with i never talk if she doesn't ask me a... show more
    So im just a teenager with problems and for the longest time i've just kept them to myself but at the end of last year i decided to get help so ever since then i've seen a therapist. But i just feel like our session are always so weird and bad. To begin with i never talk if she doesn't ask me a question, and i usually just say enough to answer the question, it sometimes feels like an intervju like she is the one wanting me here. I just feel bad that i was the one asking for help yet im giving her a hard time. and i feel like lately she doesn't even know what to ask me, everytime i've finished answering a question its this quiet moment like for a few seconds and then she asks me. the breaks keeps getting longer and longer. Another thing is also that i can't look her in the eyes, like i try, i really do but i just cant especially during those quiet breaks and i feel like that just shows even more that i dont want to be there. I just feel super bad about the whole thing and want to know if this is normal or not and what i should do about it.
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • I don’t want to clean my room not because I’m lazy but because I simply don’t want to?

    So I’m 16 and my whole life my room has been pretty unorganised but it’s gotten beyond just simply being ‘messy’. I have piles of clothes of which I don’t even wear laying around. There is literally years worth of rubbish and dust under my bed. I haven’t opened my closet in months because it literally cannot... show more
    So I’m 16 and my whole life my room has been pretty unorganised but it’s gotten beyond just simply being ‘messy’. I have piles of clothes of which I don’t even wear laying around. There is literally years worth of rubbish and dust under my bed. I haven’t opened my closet in months because it literally cannot even be opened as something is blocking it from the inside. I have got toys from when I was 6 lying around. The reason I’m even asking about this is because a huge amount of water has leaked into my carpet UNDERNEATH all the piles so now my carpet and a tonne of stuff is most likely going mouldy. My mum basically screamed at me to clean my room and that brings me to here; I don’t think it’s pure laziness. Because I’m not lazy. I cook all my own meals (I’m vegan). I exercise regularly for roughly 30-60 minutes everyday or so. I make an effort to eat healthy. I think about money and how to save it. My grades at school are ok and I try very hard. And for some reason I like having the rest of the house clean but I couldn’t care less about my room. I don’t know what is holding me back. I literally have no motivation to clean it. And to be honest it doesn’t bother me all that much either but I know I have to clean it for the sake of the people around me.
    8 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Is Divorce like suicide, a permanent solution to a temporary problem?

    Best answer: My parents divorced when I was 7 and it definitely had a crap affect on my life, so I can relate to you. Life without a father was much harder. This is a smart question. I think divorce has become too easy and it allows lots of partners to run away from situations they don't like and don't want to work... show more
    Best answer: My parents divorced when I was 7 and it definitely had a crap affect on my life, so I can relate to you. Life without a father was much harder.

    This is a smart question. I think divorce has become too easy and it allows lots of partners to run away from situations they don't like and don't want to work on. It makes marriages disposable - when one doesn't work the way someone expects it to, they just leave and look for another. The sad part is that for those who are willing to do the work with a marriage counselor, they find a way to make things work and accept that no marriage is perfect.

    The bottom line is you're right.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is a narcissist is like a fake Jesus?

    Best answer: Worse.At least a fake Jesus is a copy of something good.
    There's nothing good about a narcissist.
    Best answer: Worse.At least a fake Jesus is a copy of something good.
    There's nothing good about a narcissist.
    6 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Why are people in here offended when you block abusive people? Isn’t it just common sense?

    Best answer: if they have manners then it would not happen. We have a breakdown of respect in society which is not cool...too many working moms produces too many brats...My kids are adults and know how to treat others thank God for that.
    Best answer: if they have manners then it would not happen. We have a breakdown of respect in society which is not cool...too many working moms produces too many brats...My kids are adults and know how to treat others thank God for that.
    8 answers · 1 day ago