• I hate my dad. Any advice?

    Best answer: My parents don't get along too. I'm gonna be honest so.. Mom don't love my father when they were married. Dad's family abused Mom and non of the family liked the marriage. Now my parents have $42,857(my country don't use dollar so in my home currency, that is alot[60,000,000]) debt to the bank.... show more
    Best answer: My parents don't get along too. I'm gonna be honest so..
    Mom don't love my father when they were married. Dad's family abused Mom and non of the family liked the marriage. Now my parents have $42,857(my country don't use dollar so in my home currency, that is alot[60,000,000]) debt to the bank. My parents are going to get divorced after we sell our main business. My mother have a online boy friend for 3 years and my dad can't do anything about it. My mother want to get me into a private school(public school in my country is crap) but can't because money is too tight.Right now I'm getting shouted a lot because they don't have anywhere to let stress out.
    Look, things are bad here but you got to be stronger. Grab earphones and listen music if you want block noises. In the mean time try to get a part time job or something to get In come. Things might more bad like getting beaten up or homeless. Hang in there🌺🌎🌏🌍 🕊
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why does my family think they have any right to call me an elitist snob?

    My wife and I are in our mid 20s. We met in college and discovered we had similar childhood experiences. Both raised in pretty bad environments with parents and family who were poor, unprofessional, and irresponsible, put drugs or alcohol before their children, and blamed all their problems on everyone else. My... show more
    My wife and I are in our mid 20s. We met in college and discovered we had similar childhood experiences. Both raised in pretty bad environments with parents and family who were poor, unprofessional, and irresponsible, put drugs or alcohol before their children, and blamed all their problems on everyone else. My wife and I worked our way through college, graduated, we both have good jobs, and we got married. I've tried to limit contact with my family. I don't plan on ever helping my parents, not even when they're old and need it. They didn't help me, so why should I really. Now my wife and I are about to have a daughter, and when my family found out I told them that they weren't going to be allowed to be in her life, because I don't respect them or their behavior. Then a few days ago I got a call from one of my relatives who said I look down my nose at all of them because I have money and they don't, and that I'm just an elitist snob who wants to forget where I came from. The thing is, I haven't forgotten, and that's exactly why I don't want to speak with them. They refuse to take responsibility for the fact that they're losers and improve their lives, so why should I be viewed as a snob for actually being productive, professional, and responsible?
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • What is my mom's problem. she called me a sneaky witch because I cooked breakfast for my dad and my brothers?

    I love to cook, it's one of the many things im passionate about and I cook breakfast for my dad and my brothers. I also cook them dinner a couple nights out the week. I suffer from anxiety and depression and it's one of the many ways I can escape and have a little bit of peace. I don't cook for my mom... show more
    I love to cook, it's one of the many things im passionate about and I cook breakfast for my dad and my brothers. I also cook them dinner a couple nights out the week. I suffer from anxiety and depression and it's one of the many ways I can escape and have a little bit of peace. I don't cook for my mom because she doesn't like the way I cook breakfast. I cooked two eggs for my brothers and my dad, a piece of toast, two slices of bacon. My mom got so mad and called me a sneaky witch. She was like "don't cook your dad and brothers breakfast. you cook too much food that's why we run out of food fast. only fix them one egg each." I also would like to note my mom doesn't cook and hasn't cooked since we were little. we're all in our 20's now. my brothers are 21. i'm 26. I've currently been saving to move out and should be able to move out in about 6 months. I'm a recent college graduate. I've been dealing with my mom for a while now and she constantly puts me down with effects my self esteem and makes it harder for my depression to clear out. I was like " they're going to be starving eating only one egg." she was like " you get on my nerves I can't wait for you to move out. you're too much of a sneaky witch". there's 5 people, food is not going to last long with 5 people in the house. I pay for all the groceries anyways and my dad pays for a little bit". my mom was like " your entire paycheck needs to go towards paying your student loan. you shouldn't even ne buying groceries."
    13 answers · 23 hours ago
  • My little sister gave me an erection. Am I going to Hell?

    I feel like crap now. She walked into my room with just bra and panties, and I got super hard. SMH! I swear I do not like her at all. I just couldn't control my erection. Ever since, I can not look at my sister the same way.
    I feel like crap now. She walked into my room with just bra and panties, and I got super hard. SMH! I swear I do not like her at all. I just couldn't control my erection. Ever since, I can not look at my sister the same way.
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I be angry at her??

    Hey guys, so my girlfriend and I of almost 2 years, are expecting a baby, and while this is normally a happy moment in our lives, it really isn't. For starters, she has a 3-year-old son from a previous relationship she was in, and when she found out she was pregnant she really told me that she doesn't want... show more
    Hey guys, so my girlfriend and I of almost 2 years, are expecting a baby, and while this is normally a happy moment in our lives, it really isn't. For starters, she has a 3-year-old son from a previous relationship she was in, and when she found out she was pregnant she really told me that she doesn't want the baby. Even asking me about abortion, adoption, and other things. My initial reaction is immediate anger. Not only do I take care of her kid that isn't mine, but when I get a chance to finally have a child of my own, she doesn't want it? She says she's just trying to be honest instead of faking like she's happy about this pregnancy. Which I understand and appreciate her honesty, but I just can't get over the fact that she doesn't want my child. It makes me so angry because for almost 2 years I've been taking care of hers and being a good stepdad. I'm not saying she owes me anything but she knows that I'll be a good dad to the kids. She knows that, but she said she feels like she can't do what she wanted to do in life with 2 kids and I told her that I'd sacrifice time so that she can follow her dreams. But that still isn't enough. She just doesn't want a second baby and It makes me so mad. Why am I so angry at her??? Please help.
    8 answers · 1 hour ago
  • Is it possible that it just wasn’t meant to be (for me)?

    Best answer: I would say probably 85% of a person's circumstances aren't their fault. It's not your fault, it's theirs. Your circumstances have been rigged in such a way that your failures were predetermined from birth. What are you willing to do about it?
    Best answer: I would say probably 85% of a person's circumstances aren't their fault. It's not your fault, it's theirs. Your circumstances have been rigged in such a way that your failures were predetermined from birth. What are you willing to do about it?
    7 answers · 4 days ago
  • I caught my newphew sniffing my daughters panties?

    My nephew who is 15 was caught sniffing my daughters panties who is 13. What should I do? I like him but this in my opinion is crossing the line. I don’t want to embarrass him and ruin our relationship. How should I go about this?
    My nephew who is 15 was caught sniffing my daughters panties who is 13. What should I do? I like him but this in my opinion is crossing the line. I don’t want to embarrass him and ruin our relationship. How should I go about this?
    10 answers · 15 hours ago
  • What causes some girls to be “tomboys”?

    I have seen some female children behave in masculine ways and socialize with mostly boys. Is it their environment, such as having brothers, that causes this? The parenting?? Or just how they are?
    I have seen some female children behave in masculine ways and socialize with mostly boys. Is it their environment, such as having brothers, that causes this? The parenting?? Or just how they are?
    8 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Why is it wrong living with your parents at 30 or even 40 years old?

    Lets say you are 30, 40 years old still living with your parents..... Your parents is happy because you are helping them pay rent... Your mom don t do your laundry anymore... You have a good job... You pay rent... Buy groceries... Pay bills... etc... Is it wrong to live with your parents? Honestly, I can move out... show more
    Lets say you are 30, 40 years old still living with your parents..... Your parents is happy because you are helping them pay rent... Your mom don t do your laundry anymore... You have a good job... You pay rent... Buy groceries... Pay bills... etc... Is it wrong to live with your parents? Honestly, I can move out on my own, but I don t see the point.... I m saving money.... I get to eat every night with my parents..... If my dad or mom has a problem with their health, I can be there and help them get to the hospital.... I m asking this question because a friend of mind look down on me when I told them I m still living with my parents..... Honestly, I feel bad... even if I move out on my own I know for a fact my lifestyle won t be any different... My parents aren t complaining I m staying with them.. They are happy I m paying rent..
    36 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why Do People Think Bullying Is Ok ?

    Best answer: Anybody who thinks bullying is acceptable has an impaired moral compass.
    Best answer: Anybody who thinks bullying is acceptable has an impaired moral compass.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • How so I come out to my mum?

    I'm an adult. My parents are going through a nasty separation (my dad was VERY abusive). My dad is still being controlling but is not living with us anymore I know my mum is dealing with a lot, but I'm in a very serious and secret relationship (with 'the one' I hope). We've gone so far as to... show more
    I'm an adult. My parents are going through a nasty separation (my dad was VERY abusive). My dad is still being controlling but is not living with us anymore I know my mum is dealing with a lot, but I'm in a very serious and secret relationship (with 'the one' I hope). We've gone so far as to discuss the future, and I want to tell my mum about her The relationship is long distance. That's how I've managed to keep it a secret for so long. How do if break the news to her without making things about me? I need to take her and her pain into consideration The problem is the longer I wait, the worse it'll be (my relationship is getting more serious by the day,and she's planning on visiting me in a few months. My girlfriend even told me that she could move overseas to be with me once she finishes her study...) I'm lost :(
    8 answers · 17 hours ago
  • My wife is obsessed with me ?

    Best answer: she just really loves you
    Best answer: she just really loves you
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can I get my sister into jail for bullying us at home?

    Best answer: no, not unless she physically assaults you and you have marks or scratches that show physical abuse.
    Best answer: no, not unless she physically assaults you and you have marks or scratches that show physical abuse.
    9 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Am I verbally abused?

    Best answer: 1. this is probably bad enough to call the cops about
    2. 105 lbs is actually about 7 lbs lighter than you should be at your age and height
    Best answer: 1. this is probably bad enough to call the cops about
    2. 105 lbs is actually about 7 lbs lighter than you should be at your age and height
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it ok for my parents to still bathe me? (Im 15)?

    I don’t mind it and am fine with it. They have always done it for me and we’ve just never had a reason to not do it. They are my mummy and daddy after all. I only ask this as a friend of mine told me it was weird when he was at my house for a sleepover and I went to have my bath. My parents offered to wash him too... show more
    I don’t mind it and am fine with it. They have always done it for me and we’ve just never had a reason to not do it. They are my mummy and daddy after all. I only ask this as a friend of mine told me it was weird when he was at my house for a sleepover and I went to have my bath. My parents offered to wash him too as his mummy and daddy weren’t there but he declined and washed himself. Long story short: is it weird?
    11 answers · 2 days ago