• Why do some people not want children?

    219 answers · 3 days ago
  • I wore my hair down secretly and got caught?

    i'm a 17yo girl and i live in a very strict religious household. This mind sound silly, but i'm not exactly allowed to wear my hair down. The last time i ever wore my hair down in front of my parents was in middle school, and my dad made a huge deal about it. They always tell me that i'm going to study... show more
    i'm a 17yo girl and i live in a very strict religious household. This mind sound silly, but i'm not exactly allowed to wear my hair down. The last time i ever wore my hair down in front of my parents was in middle school, and my dad made a huge deal about it. They always tell me that i'm going to study not to party, and that my hair should be simple and TIED UP. Anyways, i have been wearing my hair down secretly for about a couple years now, i always wear it down and tie it right before i go back home. I like the feeling of having it down. It makes me feel feminine and powerful. But today as i was on my way back home, my hair was down as usual and some boy was catcalling me . Surprisingly my mom and sister were on the same street and they saw everything. My mom said she's disappointed, that i fooled her and she doesn't trust me anymore and that i'm hoeing around and sh*t... God it was so embarassing... What should i do about the situation?
    23 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why did the patty Duke show make cousins twins?

    How is that a thing in the show when in reality that doesn't happen? I mean I read a thing that said if identical twins had twins of their own which is very very unlikely and rare then it's possible that the babies would be identical given that their parents are both identical like an identical twin sister... show more
    How is that a thing in the show when in reality that doesn't happen? I mean I read a thing that said if identical twins had twins of their own which is very very unlikely and rare then it's possible that the babies would be identical given that their parents are both identical like an identical twin sister pair Veronica and Susan both have children Veronica has a baby Mary and Susan has a baby Abigail it's possible that Mary and Abigail could be identical twins but still it's a rarity thing why didn't the Patty Duke Show make it out like actual identical twins separated at Birth or something funny and the mother did not know she had twins or something that would be more realistic. I don't know I'm 30 years old I watch a lot of old shows but some reason that wasn't one that I've really known about until real recent for some reason so I don't really know much about it but I find that that's just silly. It makes for a great show and I still really like watching it but I'm just very literal and just curious why they did it that particular way as identical twins that are cousins cuz that's not a thing.
    6 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Would it be unfair to let my children s grandparents take my oldest on vacation and not my other children?

    Best answer: Do what you feel is best. If there is favortism it's more important to deal with that and nip it in the bud than to ignore it for a trip. I know first hand from experience and these comments are acting as if it's the end of the world for him. Just as the other kids will get other opportunities than he will... show more
    Best answer: Do what you feel is best. If there is favortism it's more important to deal with that and nip it in the bud than to ignore it for a trip. I know first hand from experience and these comments are acting as if it's the end of the world for him. Just as the other kids will get other opportunities than he will too just maybe not this time. Like some have said life is unfair but all they are doing is picking who it should be unfair for when at the end of the day it's your choice the bible says honor thy father and mother. You can plan your own family trip to Hawaii and no one will miss out. I saw your comment say you are very close so maybe he would rather wait and go with you anyway. Good luck.
    27 answers · 4 days ago
  • I can’t even go out with my friends & I’m 15 going to 16?

    Basically, my brother can go out with his friends all the time, but I can’t, AT ALL. I asked what was the reason and my parents said it’s because I’m a girl, what’s that suppose to mean? It’s not like I’m going to go out and meeting up with some guy. All I’m asking is just to have some quality time with my friends.... show more
    Basically, my brother can go out with his friends all the time, but I can’t, AT ALL. I asked what was the reason and my parents said it’s because I’m a girl, what’s that suppose to mean? It’s not like I’m going to go out and meeting up with some guy. All I’m asking is just to have some quality time with my friends. I’ve done everything. Do chores, get good grades in school, work hard, got a job, I’m starting to do after school activities (softball), and the answer is still no. I’m a good kid. I’m really am. I’ve never gotten in trouble at school. But I’m pretty sure it has to do with the fact that one of my sisters previously had gotten pregnant at 14, and she’s 32 right now. And this one time, my brother was speaking to his girlfriend on FaceTime and my mother supported it, but didn’t want to tell my dad because he’d freak out, but every time when one of my older sister makes a joke about me having a boyfriend (I don’t) my mom wants to turn serious. I’m smart enough to know not to go around and have sex with some boy and get pregnant. I trust them, but they clearly don’t have a trust in me. And now, I’m starting to lose my trust in them. I feel I can’t even talk to my parents about anything, especially when it has to do with going to my one my closest friends birthday party. (They still said no). Whenever I see someone going shopping at the mall with their friends, I feel upset because I can’t do the same. My parents are strict, wayy too strict, and it’s hurting me mentally.
    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • Pregnant girlfriends mom hates me. She told me i cant go to any dr appointments with her daughter and i cant sign the birth certificate?

    Best answer: I didn't read all this because it borders on the ridiculous, but if you want to sign the birth certificate, you can. I dont think fathers sign the birth certificate anyway. They didn't when i had my kids. I just had to add their name myself. The gf's mother is a mental case.Just ignore her idiotic... show more
    Best answer: I didn't read all this because it borders on the ridiculous, but if you want to sign the birth certificate, you can. I dont think fathers sign the birth certificate anyway. They didn't when i had my kids. I just had to add their name myself.

    The gf's mother is a mental case.Just ignore her idiotic behavior. And if you want to get the gf out of her situation, manifest that in your mind. Use The Law of Attraction. (try youtube for info).

    What we believe in this life, we make true.
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • I found dead bodies under my son's bed and now don't know what to do, should i turn him in?

    I was cleaning my son's room the other day, he's 15, when i noticed a faint but foul smell coming from under his bed. At first like any mother i assumed he had probably been masturbating or something so i went to look under there but there was no clothes. I did notice however some strange scratches on the... show more
    I was cleaning my son's room the other day, he's 15, when i noticed a faint but foul smell coming from under his bed. At first like any mother i assumed he had probably been masturbating or something so i went to look under there but there was no clothes. I did notice however some strange scratches on the floorboards so i went to touch it and it came loose. I then lifted them up only to discover to my horror a hole he'd dug underneath filled with actual dead human bodies wrapped in plastic. I was shocked and nearly collapsed as that was definitely not there when we moved in. I couldn't stay shocked for long though as i then heard the front door open and "Hey mom" I had no choice but to quickly put everything back and just pretend like i was still dusting as he got to the door and i simply pretended like everything was normal and asked him how his day at school had been. I don't know what to do now. He's my baby after all. Should i call the police or just have a heart-to-heart sit down with him and talk about it?
    10 answers · 11 hours ago
  • What should I do if I found sex toys in my parents’ room - I’m 16 years old?

    I’m adopted so I assumed they never have sex at all. They didn’t need to, and it’s not like they’re having a new baby either. They’re really nice people, I thought they’d never do such gross things. My parents never talked to me about reproduction at all. I just found out from other kids at school back in 5th... show more
    I’m adopted so I assumed they never have sex at all. They didn’t need to, and it’s not like they’re having a new baby either. They’re really nice people, I thought they’d never do such gross things. My parents never talked to me about reproduction at all. I just found out from other kids at school back in 5th grade. It was never a family topic to discuss about. To this day, they still assume that I have no idea about the basics of relationships. So I thought they’re the same as well.
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are my parents just really stupid?

    Best answer: no they are just worried you might do something they don't approve of
    Best answer: no they are just worried you might do something they don't approve of
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Im 31 and live at home. Can I tell my mom not to bother me in the mornings because I’m tired? Or is that rude?

    Best answer: nnaybe you shouldnt live at honne if you dont want her bothering you, i would just be thankful you still have your nnother around, wish i did
    Best answer: nnaybe you shouldnt live at honne if you dont want her bothering you, i would just be thankful you still have your nnother around, wish i did
    25 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why do many people say that "Long Distance Relationships (LDRs) don't work, they mostly lead to heartbreaks", are they telling the truth??.?

    Like, many people say that. Especially old people I'm in an LDR with a guy since I was 16 (I'm 20 now), and he was a fresher at University at that time, now he's 26. He lives in *another* country. I'm pretty sure he's the one for me, because it's so clear... We get along well. (We've... show more
    Like, many people say that. Especially old people I'm in an LDR with a guy since I was 16 (I'm 20 now), and he was a fresher at University at that time, now he's 26. He lives in *another* country. I'm pretty sure he's the one for me, because it's so clear... We get along well. (We've met in person only once, but we talk daily, and video call daily). He loves me for my inner beauty, not just my body. I can't imagine living without this amazing man. I live in a bad/third-world country, whereas he lives in a first-world country. When I'm 23, he'll marry me and I'll move in with him in HIS country. His parents are amazing and will accept me as their daughter-in-law. I love him so much. But when I hear so many people say negative stuff about LDRs...I get nervous. Do you think these people are just generalizing their personal bad experiences?
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • My dying granpa will be gone in a few days. When the time comes,should I be in the room holding his hand?

    Best answer: I stayed with both my grandmother and my mother in law when they passed. I have no regrets at all. But there is really no right or wrong answer, as it all depends on each individual and what is right for them. You are a doctor, so you will probably already know everything I am about to say. When you choose to be... show more
    Best answer: I stayed with both my grandmother and my mother in law when they passed. I have no regrets at all. But there is really no right or wrong answer, as it all depends on each individual and what is right for them. You are a doctor, so you will probably already know everything I am about to say. When you choose to be with your loved one, it almost becomes a waiting game, for lack of a better term. I hate using that phrase but I really don't know how else to word it. It's not as if you WANT them to go, but you become anxious to see them released from their pain and discomfort. There are times when you think "this is it" and you truly believe they just drew their last breath, but then they start breathing again. This can go on for quite some time, and when it is a loved one, it can be extremely emotionally draining. During this time, it is not entirely unusual for all the family members to be on edge and snippy, as this is an emotionally trying time for everyone. People should not take these things personally, because it certainly is anything but. Everyone is just hurting and on edge. If family members become irritated, they might say things they don't mean. Don't hold on to these things, and don't let these acute outbursts of stress cause divisions in the family. These things happen. Once the family member finally passes, there is somewhat of a sense of relief for everyone. Some people who hear family members say that it was a "relief" tend to take this the wrong way, and think it sounds cruel, but it is not. Unless they have been there and seen a family member suffering for days, they cannot relate and should not tell others how they should or should not feel. You will experience a wave of different emotions, and yes, relief after they pass is going to be one of them. You are relieved that they are finally no longer in pain, not because you wanted them to go. Don't feel guilty about this, it is completely normal. I'm very sorry to hear about your grandfather, but it is wonderful that he lived a very full life and had a lot of years to enjoy his family. Do what you know is right for YOU. Nothing you choose will be the wrong choice.
    9 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Big sister died and I am so lost. Where do I belong?

    My big sister died unexpectedly nearly two years ago. I still have another sister who lives out of state. I am the only son. I am 38 and not married. My big sister and I were seemingly close and had lots in common. Now I feel so alone. My other sister’s adult son is becoming a family man now so he and I will never... show more
    My big sister died unexpectedly nearly two years ago. I still have another sister who lives out of state. I am the only son. I am 38 and not married. My big sister and I were seemingly close and had lots in common. Now I feel so alone. My other sister’s adult son is becoming a family man now so he and I will never be as close as we used to be anymore. My parents don’t really need me anymore either. The sister who died used to depend on me to come to her house to do repairs for her. Now that she’s gone I don’t know what to do with myself. I just keep remembering old times and living in the past. I want things back the way they used to be. But I know that’s impossible. I feel like a part of my soul died with her. All of the things she and I had in common(music, theatre, and musical theatre) I don’t have with anyone else. And I don’t think I ever will. Sometimes I think I would just like to join her. That no one will miss me anyway. I don’t know what to do with myself anymore. I don’t know where I belong.
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • My little sister was a ***** after I got my surgery. So now, she won’t be my maid of honor and I won’t visit her after childbirth?

    Best answer: i dont blanne you, i would probably feel the sanne way
    Best answer: i dont blanne you, i would probably feel the sanne way
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why my dad hates me?

    My dad come from an dysfunctional family and his parent divorce when he was 12. He never asked.about me and he doesn't take responsibility for me. I'm 20 year old female and when I visit him he started to insult me (no reason). I stop talking to him. I don't know what to do.
    My dad come from an dysfunctional family and his parent divorce when he was 12. He never asked.about me and he doesn't take responsibility for me. I'm 20 year old female and when I visit him he started to insult me (no reason). I stop talking to him. I don't know what to do.
    7 answers · 10 hours ago
  • My mom went through my phone and ipad texts and it pisses me off?

    Best answer: not nnuch you can do but try apologizing and nnaybe you'll get it back
    Best answer: not nnuch you can do but try apologizing and nnaybe you'll get it back
    25 answers · 5 days ago