• If you're staying with someone as a guest (distant relatives, boyfriends family etc) is it acceptable to have a shower without asking them.?

    And is it okay to help yourself to water from their kitchen or to make yourself a snack? Surely they won't expect you to starve and be dirty during the stay?
    And is it okay to help yourself to water from their kitchen or to make yourself a snack? Surely they won't expect you to starve and be dirty during the stay?
    17 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Do you think this is really rude?

    So I'm sharing a house with my brother and his family. We share everything including the refrigerator. Well, the wife often would put signs on the food saying "This is for a party" "This is for so and so" I guess to tell me not to eat them. I find this pretty rude considering she never... show more
    So I'm sharing a house with my brother and his family. We share everything including the refrigerator. Well, the wife often would put signs on the food saying "This is for a party" "This is for so and so" I guess to tell me not to eat them. I find this pretty rude considering she never goes grocery shopping and never spends a dime on food even though my brother gives her a large allowance every month. She doesn't even throw out the trash cause she's apparently the Princess and I'm her servant. So how rude is this Beeeotch?
    46 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should this older gentleman be ignored around this high school girl, or not?

    Best answer: You should ask her how she feels about the situation. If she has a problem with it, talk to the manager, not her parents. If she is fine with it leave it alone. Her parents trust her to be able to handle a job and dealing with people so there's no reason to insert yourself in this by saying something to her... show more
    Best answer: You should ask her how she feels about the situation. If she has a problem with it, talk to the manager, not her parents. If she is fine with it leave it alone. Her parents trust her to be able to handle a job and dealing with people so there's no reason to insert yourself in this by saying something to her parents.
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • If you accidentally broke something of someone else’s, do you have to pay for it?

    Best answer: Out of courtesy, you should replace it...
    Best answer: Out of courtesy, you should replace it...
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do some elderly ladies stare?

    Best answer: Their eyes aren't as good as they used to be, so they often have to stare to see clearly.
    Best answer: Their eyes aren't as good as they used to be, so they often have to stare to see clearly.
    10 answers · 8 hours ago
  • My neighbor keeps closing my garage door. I have left notes and that doesn't work. Im feeling increasingly violent. what should i do?

    My Garage is detached from the dwelling, and I do not keep anything in the garage except my car. Not even a snow shovel. I don't close the door when I leave because it is not motorized and I don't want to get out of a nice warm car and trudge thru 3 inches of snow on my driveway to open the door to put my... show more
    My Garage is detached from the dwelling, and I do not keep anything in the garage except my car. Not even a snow shovel. I don't close the door when I leave because it is not motorized and I don't want to get out of a nice warm car and trudge thru 3 inches of snow on my driveway to open the door to put my car away. My neighbor insists on closing it and left a note once saying to close my door because it looks shetty when its open. I don't care, its MY door, and I do not care about the opinions of my neighbors. He also leaves notes on my front door saying to shovel my driveway, rake my leaves, he even complains about the fact that my car has no muffler. Regarding the car, its my only car and I can't afford to fix it. I don't like being told how to live my life on MY PROPERTY. The police refuse to get involved and I am feeling increasingly angry and violent over this. I didnt move away from my parents just so that my NEIGHBOR could tell me what to do. I need a way to eliminate this guy from my life, legally. what are my options?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • How should I speak to my friends mother on the phone to make her life me?

    i dont want to call because her mum doesnt like me and i only got her house phone.(her mum doesnt like me because she thinks i'm rude, when i asked to talk to her daughter i didnt say please, she also thinks I smoke weed) she said i have to call her because shes too scared to call me because shes scared of my... show more
    i dont want to call because her mum doesnt like me and i only got her house phone.(her mum doesnt like me because she thinks i'm rude, when i asked to talk to her daughter i didnt say please, she also thinks I smoke weed) she said i have to call her because shes too scared to call me because shes scared of my mum (my mum accused her from stealing from me). Should i just forget we were ever friends? we known eachother since we were 4. But she doesn't seem to be making the effort to contact me either.
    10 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Co worker was disgustingly rude to me?

    we work in a restaurant hes front of house I'm boh. not wanting food to go cold and wanting to talk to my chef I ran the food upstairs and asked him to take it to the table in which he responded "well its already in your hands so why don't you just bring it over" it was rude, condescending, and... show more
    we work in a restaurant hes front of house I'm boh. not wanting food to go cold and wanting to talk to my chef I ran the food upstairs and asked him to take it to the table in which he responded "well its already in your hands so why don't you just bring it over" it was rude, condescending, and unappreciative. he tried to apologize right after but I walked away as I was unable to accept the apology. like what is that ****? how do I treat them after this?
    8 answers · 4 hours ago
  • My coworker takes way too long breaks and often leaves work early without telling anyone should I tell my boss?

    I ma friends with him but it's pissing me off, I do the right thing and becaus ehe does this I have to work even harder to pick up the slack! He even encourages me to have longer breaks but I can't I'm not the kind of person who can slack off like that. I really don't want to tell my boss because... show more
    I ma friends with him but it's pissing me off, I do the right thing and becaus ehe does this I have to work even harder to pick up the slack! He even encourages me to have longer breaks but I can't I'm not the kind of person who can slack off like that. I really don't want to tell my boss because she'd probably fire him but ffs he's pissing me off! He left an hour early yesterday and there was so much work still to do and guess who had to do it all? That's right THIS GUY! Outside in 40 degree heat! So over it what should I do???
    8 answers · 6 hours ago
  • How to deal with a bossy co-worker?

    I work in a small office full of women and one co-worker likes to boss everyone aroun d. The thing is that she's very discrete about her dominance . She likd to gather people and put them against oother people in the office. She even has power over the boss, she convinced him what assignments to give to her... show more
    I work in a small office full of women and one co-worker likes to boss everyone aroun d. The thing is that she's very discrete about her dominance . She likd to gather people and put them against oother people in the office. She even has power over the boss, she convinced him what assignments to give to her and what to give to the others. A few people secretly hate her but do not say anything cause she plays these kind games where you are are afraid to stand up and if you do you look stupid. The worst part is that she's only been there for a year. I don't like her but she hasn't done anything to me. She even tries to make me join her to bring others down. How can I deal with her? It's a small office so I can't avoid her . It just annoys me the power she over the boss and the people that have been there longer than she has.
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • How do you feel about this person's actions , or lack thereof?

    Once a year at work we exchange gifts during Christmas season . Through a website , names were randomly generated and a co worker whom I dislike as a person ,was assigned to buy me a gift. ( I believe the person senses that I do not like him , so in return he dislikes me) Last week , when the day came to... show more
    Once a year at work we exchange gifts during Christmas season . Through a website , names were randomly generated and a co worker whom I dislike as a person ,was assigned to buy me a gift. ( I believe the person senses that I do not like him , so in return he dislikes me) Last week , when the day came to exchange gifts , he DID NOT have a gift for me . He apologized repeatedly and offered to buy me an alcoholic beverage ,which I accepted. He said he'd get my gift to me two days after the fact , though days have gone by and there is still no gift . Should management hold him accountable and make sure he follows through? I disliked him from the start . And I dislike him even more now after this incident .
    20 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do we buy a couple (brother/sister-in-law) each a gift for Xmas, or just a gift for both together?

    They got us each one, and they make more money than my husband and I do (capt & 2nd lt in AF) if that matters. (Not greedy, just don’t know the etiquette here)
    They got us each one, and they make more money than my husband and I do (capt & 2nd lt in AF) if that matters. (Not greedy, just don’t know the etiquette here)
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this weird? Minor-league rude?

    Best answer: Nah. The Holidays are rough on everyone. Don't make it worse for you by looking into something deeper than you should. Worst case scenario they don't like you and you know know to keep the candy to yourself! They probably just didn't notice it or just forgot to respond. It happens.
    Best answer: Nah. The Holidays are rough on everyone. Don't make it worse for you by looking into something deeper than you should. Worst case scenario they don't like you and you know know to keep the candy to yourself! They probably just didn't notice it or just forgot to respond. It happens.
    8 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Why are some elderly so entitled and rude?

    I treat them with respect always and am polite But some of them queue jump Demand discounts Act rude Push in Etc
    I treat them with respect always and am polite But some of them queue jump Demand discounts Act rude Push in Etc
    7 answers · 3 hours ago