• Girls would you date a nice guy who looked like Channing Tatum or Brad Pitt if he was shy ?

    Best answer: Umm, if I liked his personality and we connected, then yeah. But his looks wouldn't matter to me. I guess it would just be a bonus.
    Best answer: Umm, if I liked his personality and we connected, then yeah. But his looks wouldn't matter to me. I guess it would just be a bonus.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Was it rape?

    A few years ago I was seeing a girl casually for a few weeks. (I am male). We had done sexual things several times, no intercourse however. The last time I saw her, we wanted to have sex with each other, but did not have condoms, which she wanted me to use. We were fooling around naked in her bed, one thing led to... show more
    A few years ago I was seeing a girl casually for a few weeks. (I am male). We had done sexual things several times, no intercourse however. The last time I saw her, we wanted to have sex with each other, but did not have condoms, which she wanted me to use. We were fooling around naked in her bed, one thing led to another, and I began "teasing" her vagina with my penis. She did not stop me, and we were kissing very sensually and seemed to both want the same thing. Bearing in mind what she had said, and what the interaction progressed to, I slowly slid my penis into her vagina for a few seconds, and then she asked me to stop, which I did IMMEDIATELY. We then continued to fool around and got each other off without intercourse. We hung out a while longer, then said our goodbyes, and I haven't seen her since as I moved away from the town she lived in. As time has gone by, and with the recent shedding of light on the likes of Harvey Weinstein, I'm terrified that I have done something horrible, and feel horrible about it, but am not really sure if I have done something wrong.. I penetrated her, she asked me to stop and I stopped. I guess I feel wrong about it because she ASKED me to stop, signifying I was doing something she didn't want. Which is where I'm confused and do not know what to make of the situation. I have not heard from her since nor have I reached out. Can someone please help me understand what happened?
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 19 hours ago
  • How many sexual partners should a guy at least have by the age of 30?

    as in not be looked down as less of a man?
    as in not be looked down as less of a man?
    105 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • How can I just straight up ask on of these guys to have sex with me?

    Call me a slut, I don't care, but I've been feeling really horny lately. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and I haven't had sex since then. Masturbating doesn't help anymore. There's this group of pretty awkward, nerdy guys I know. I have heard them talking about how hot they think I... show more
    Call me a slut, I don't care, but I've been feeling really horny lately. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6 months ago and I haven't had sex since then. Masturbating doesn't help anymore. There's this group of pretty awkward, nerdy guys I know. I have heard them talking about how hot they think I am, so I know at least one of them would want to have sex with me. They are all nice virgin guys too, so they would probably be considerate to me in bed. How can I just ask one of them for sex? I don't want to seem like a hooker or something, I just want to know how to lead on that I would have sex with one of them if they asked me?
    53 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • What should I do about my daughter?

    My daughter is 19 years old. She’s a freshman in community college, which I pay for. I pay her car insurance ($2,000/yr), car repairs (thousands of dollars over two years), and she lives here rent free. I also buy all her food and toiletries. She’s in school about 9 hours a week over three days. I don’t think she... show more
    My daughter is 19 years old. She’s a freshman in community college, which I pay for. I pay her car insurance ($2,000/yr), car repairs (thousands of dollars over two years), and she lives here rent free. I also buy all her food and toiletries. She’s in school about 9 hours a week over three days. I don’t think she has much homework. She has a job where she works 2-3 days a week for about 10-12 hours on average for the week. She only pays for her gas and for clothes. Should I continue doing this? She always says she’s so busy but she spends more time with her boyfriend than she does at school or work and sometimes getting her to do chores around the house becomes a chore for me.
    48 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Friend says he wants to rape my older sister?

    Best answer: The police won't do anything unless he's made direct threats to your sister. So remove this sicko from your life and keep your sister informed about what he said.
    Best answer: The police won't do anything unless he's made direct threats to your sister. So remove this sicko from your life and keep your sister informed about what he said.
    23 answers · Friends · 1 day ago
  • Would you give your life to save your spouse?

    Best answer: The gunman is lying. He will either kill you both or kill neither of us. I would go for him, Nothing to lose and everything to gain.
    Best answer: The gunman is lying. He will either kill you both or kill neither of us. I would go for him, Nothing to lose and everything to gain.
    23 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Would you date an unnattractive person if you liked their personality?

    Best answer: That would depend on how unattractive they are.
    Best answer: That would depend on how unattractive they are.
    17 answers · Singles & Dating · 19 hours ago
  • Cheating husband wants me back?

    So here's the deal. About a month ago I found out through reading my husband's messages that he had been talking with another woman. I confronted him and he said it was just a kiss. But he was really confused so he said I needed to move out for two months while he figured out how he felt. We went to... show more
    So here's the deal. About a month ago I found out through reading my husband's messages that he had been talking with another woman. I confronted him and he said it was just a kiss. But he was really confused so he said I needed to move out for two months while he figured out how he felt. We went to counselling and he continued to reassure me it was over. Then I found out through reading his messages again they had been dating and sleeping together still that whole time. I booked a flight home for about a month away and he continued to refuse to let her go and acted very disinterested in our marriage though claiming he still loved me. I started to gain some hope then found out again they were still talking. Now he's at rock bottom has no money cause I paid all the rent before and wants me back and is acting highly emotional and suicidal. I think the other woman has left him. He is 43 years old and I am 25, he is very immature and has a lot of issues. How do I cope with this?
    34 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • I feel happier spending time with my colleague than my husband . Would this be cheating?

    Before you judge me , you need to read the whole thing . Mine is a three year old marriage , and I won't call it a bad one , the first year was heaven , second was good too but something has been going wrong the last couple of months . Our relationship is getting sour , we fight more than usual and then... show more
    Before you judge me , you need to read the whole thing . Mine is a three year old marriage , and I won't call it a bad one , the first year was heaven , second was good too but something has been going wrong the last couple of months . Our relationship is getting sour , we fight more than usual and then don't make up as quick as before . Moreover my husband is often sarcastic and mean . Also sometimes I feel , he doesn't care for me and respect me like he used to . Now there is this guy at work , who joined some five months back , we work in the same unit of the office and he has been so attentive and caring since day one . I feel so happy and relaxed those eight hours of work when I am with him . He cares if I have eaten or not and also tries to guide me at work when I am faltering , and he is immensely helpful too . We are not having an affair or anything of that kind , but when I come back to my husband , I miss that comfort and ease since my husband doesn't care for me like before . I don't want to divorce him too but what I am doing with my colleague , would that be called cheating
    32 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • Should I break up with my boyfriend? Is this considered cheating?

    I walked in on my boyfriend and his best friend making out on the bed with only boxers on. When I saw them I was so shocked, I walked out the house and my boyfriend tried to talk to me as I was storming out. He was saying that they only were experimenting and it was just for fun. I don't know, because if it was... show more
    I walked in on my boyfriend and his best friend making out on the bed with only boxers on. When I saw them I was so shocked, I walked out the house and my boyfriend tried to talk to me as I was storming out. He was saying that they only were experimenting and it was just for fun. I don't know, because if it was a girl I would be WAY MORE MAD because he's never said he was bi/gay or anything other than straight. So idk if their experiment is cheating or they were actually having some kind of low key affair . Also, the friend he was kissing has a girlfriend too, so idk if I should inform her. I'm so conflicted. I've told my boyfriend I need some time to think about it and I'm staying with my friend at the moment. Should I ask him if he has feelings for his friend? or believe what he is saying... do guys randomly make out with each other for fun when they are not drunk or at a party? like it was just just them two alone and it was like an hour after they finish their work. :/ HELP ME
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 hours ago
  • My Gf wants to see me naked im 14?

    Best answer: If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it and let her know. She needs to respect your decision on this. Should she still insist, that's obviously not respecting your own wishes or you at all.
    Best answer: If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it and let her know. She needs to respect your decision on this. Should she still insist, that's obviously not respecting your own wishes or you at all.
    8 answers · Singles & Dating · 7 hours ago
  • How far can parents take the 'my house, my rules' argument?

    For circumstances that affect the parents, it makes sense and I agree with it, e.g. Having people over. But, can they really apply this argument to things that have no effect on them whatsoever, e.g. How much time I spend doing a certain activity?
    For circumstances that affect the parents, it makes sense and I agree with it, e.g. Having people over. But, can they really apply this argument to things that have no effect on them whatsoever, e.g. How much time I spend doing a certain activity?
    41 answers · Family · 2 days ago