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    Should I accept this behavior from my boyfriend ? ?

    So last weekend I had a bday celebration  for my birthday at my house....I had invited  my boyfriend Of two years... he always working out of town and a lot of hours. So the times I do spend time with him are only on the weekends. Well that weekend was my celebration party.... my bf came down and I had told him prior about the party. Well that day came, I didn’t hear from my boyfriend.  I kept on calling him to see what time was he coming but no I didn’t hear from him all day.. what made it worse was that I had told my family he was coming and they kept on asking me so I felt so embarrassed coz it was already late... well I was so sad! Anyways the next morning he called me telling me that he was sooooo sorry and that he was asleep all day long at home and he lost track of time.....I accepted this apology however he didn’t even think of stopping by at my house to just see me since he was already going to leave out of town to work agian. 

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating1 day ago
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    How to get a girl out of my head..?

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    I feel you and let me tell you that it is almost impossible to get rid of your crush specially when you love them that much. So I'm gonna share with you the things I did to accept the fact that my crush and I will never be more than friends and that I have to love myself and move on. The first thing I tried was stop texting him. I know it is something you have tried already and it didnt go well in your case, but what I did to avoid blocking was saying something like "I really dont wanna get used to you anymore. You know i will always be here for you and the best of happiness and sucess is all i wish you", I asked him to talk just once a week or once a month to know about him, and he dubiously accepted. After that he felt unsured about the agreement but I had to explain that it was something needed for his good and mine. We kept talking once a week for 1 and half year, I met new ppl, I tried to focus on loving myself and he started dating someone. When he told me he was in a relationship, I didnt feel bad at all but happy instead bc I already knew that something like that was gonna happen. I started dating someone too, and that is another thing that made me distracted myself. Another thing I also did was thinking about my crush like an impossible, like that kind of crush you have on a celebrity, you can say they are cute and nice but they dont know about your existance and alos thinking in that way will make you accept you like your crush but you cant have them. This thing leads to the other thing I also did: accept i like my crush. The more you say you dont like your crush, the more you get attached to them. 

    In few words, it is impossible to get rid of your crush but wishing them the best in this life, be their best friend, learn to live just knowing about then occasionally and give yourself a chance to like other ppl. We dont have only one chance to fall in love but thousand of chances. And never forget to love yourself first to love others.  

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating12 hours ago
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    My husband said he needs a lot of time to deal with my affair before he comes back home. do I deal with the feelings of intense loneliness?

    How do I cope? I didn’t expect this to happen.. it started off with me just craving a friend after me and my husband were fighting constantly over money issues.. I realized that we should have seen a therapist before it got so bad.. I can’t stop thinking about him and nights and weekends are the loneliest.. I never had feelings for the other man.. just was a way to escape from my stressful finances.. the pain of my husband being gone is so bad sometimes I feel I can’t breathe..

    25 AnswersMarriage & Divorce3 days ago
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    My friend still depressed over her husband divorcing her it’s been like 8 months. She act like the man died. Is this normal ?

    Told her It’s been 7 months this is getting out of hand you shouldn’t be crying still you act like the man died and she’s posting crying pictures on Facebook and all that. I told her don’t do that take crying post don’t you don’t want people in your BUISNESS and she snapped at me and told me “ I don’t care about people being in my BUISNESS leant me alone about that.”

    15 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 day ago
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    Does my wife sound crazy?

    So my wife and I was laying in bed and randomly she tells me if I ever cheat on her she will chop my penis off and watch it bleed.. and she made it clear that she was serious... how should I take that... BTW it's not the first time she has said crazy stuff like that.. 

    14 AnswersMarriage & Divorce23 hours ago
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    what are your thoughts?

    We have been discussing (my husband and I) in a permanent birth control plan. I have been on the pill for the last 20 yrs of our marriage. I am so tired of taking care of the birth control. We planned for 3 kids. Well, we are expecting our bonus baby, I was not careful with my pills, sleep depravation, and raising a teen, preteen and a toddler. I asked my husband to get a vasectomy, which he is refusing because he's masculinity will not allow him to "give in". I don't want to get a tubal ligation, but might as well get it. These are his words and I quote: "I would get a vasectomy only if I knew I was going to be unfaithful and sleep around", like wth?! I've been giving birth to our children, and I thought I asked for what was fair, for him to give in for once. Am I over exaggerating? Or he's just being unreasonable? 

    13 AnswersMarriage & Divorce19 hours ago
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    What is wrong with white cops?

    Inspite of the horrible sh#t they do, most of them are married with kids. How can they do tge things they do? And how could somebody live with a monsters like that? 

    13 AnswersMarriage & Divorce21 hours ago
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    How do i deal with sexual frustration as a 25 year old male thats never had a girlfriend, in good health and can’t get laid.?

    Sometimes i feel like killing myself because its almost impossible for me to get a girlfriend let alone get laid. Am a fraternal twin and my sister gets thousands of matches on dating sites while I’ve been on 12 dating sites for over 9 years and never matched with any woman. This may sound funny to some of you guys, but its really not to me and it causes me pain and depression everyday of my life. Am physically fit, i have good hygiene, i take care of myself, so why is it impossible for any girl to be into me? I live on my own and don’t leach off my parents, but i know guys that still live with their parents and having women chasing them, so what makes me so different that i have to be alone and single all the time. I just want to die because i don’t know what to do anymore. Does anyone here have any advice plz?

    29 AnswersSingles & Dating3 days ago
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    What is wrong with my husband? One day he's nice, and than he's in a bad mood?

    Its getting on my last nerve because I've been dealing with this for a long while. We've been married for 3 years and after a year of marriage, he started treating me like garbage. There's days where he's cool and collected and spoils me and shows me love, and than the next day, there's a silent treatment out of nowhere. I use to think it was my fault and I kept crying myself to sleep but its constantly happening now so I no longer pay it any attention. When he gives me the silent treatment, I just ignore him throughout the day. And than the next day, he's all over me. Whenever we see friends or family, he always tells them how much of a horrible wife I am and blah blah blah. He talks about everything and compares me to others. He says I'm stupid or slow and that I lack brain cells. I ignore him because I got use to the harsh treatment but I've reached a point where I'm not in love at all anymore. I no longer care for him. I'm actually going about my day like I'm single. I consider myself single and if I do meet another guy, I'll consider going out with him. I find myself daydreaming of a man who can love me better. Am I wrong for this? I do not want to fix anything with my husband. I just want to move on and forget him forever. I'm tired of hearing him constantly being disappointed in everything I do. Is this normal? What should I do from here? I do work but I still don't have much to move out.

    12 AnswersMarriage & Divorce21 hours ago
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    My son just told me he was raped by a priest at my church. What should I do? ?

    I am shaking with rage. I might choke this bastard out with my bare hands. 

    42 AnswersFamily4 days ago
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    My girlfriend just told me that I have to give her a gift every six week to show that I care or she's going to break up with me?

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    Man, are you whipped!  If I was in your shoes, I'd tell her, "There's the door.  Don't let it hit ya where the good Lord split ya!".

    21 AnswersSingles & Dating4 days ago
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    My boyfriend doesn’t want me visiting my family?

    First I want to start off by saying I’m homesick and I miss my mom and siblings more than a lot. Right now I’m currently pregnant and my boyfriend keeps saying it’s not a good idea to visit my family. He keeps coming up with excuses saying my mom will stress me out which can affect our baby but I know my mom more than him. We both live together and his family is involved in our lives BUT every time I try to involve my mom or younger siblings he becomes upset as if I ruined the mood. My family lives in the next state which really isn’t far from me. I just don’t know what to do at this moment. I don’t want to upset him for visiting my family but I also I want to see them so bad. Advice please?

    33 AnswersFamily5 days ago
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    Would you be mad? I'm furious & don't know if I may be over-reacting. ?

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    Yes, I would be absolutely livid if someone did that to me and that person would not be welcome in my home again.  No, you are not over-reacting i.m.o.

    12 AnswersMarriage & Divorce3 days ago
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    Co worker and girls?

    I work in Starbucks. My male co-worker is 24 years old, whom I have the most amount of shifts has has taken fancy to one of the female customers who is a regular face at our branch.

    I had noticed him eyeing her quite a bit a few weeks ago but brushed it off. Now, this particular lady is apparently on his "friends" list when she visits the shop. She usually comes every day.

    While him eyeing her all the time hasn't impacted his work performance as he does focus on his work, I do find it a bit unsettling that he's doing this? I caught him directly today when we were making smoothies for a customer. This girl was picking up a Starbucks cup from the shelves, he saw her, eyed her for a few secs then got back to work. He has been quite blatant lately as our female co worker also pointed out that a week ago, he just started chatting with the same girl in front of her even though he was given the task of unpacking the cups and bottles. He ultimately went on to do his job but not before he sought attention from her.

    Is this unprofessional? Let him have his fling or love story as he pleases?

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 day ago
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    How do I tell my wife that she is no longer with her family and they aren't responsible for her?

    I'm a traditional man. Yes, I want my wife to be a stay at home mom and take care of the house. My wife was a virgin when we were together and she was an amazing woman and that's why I decided to marry her, because I knew she would stay loyal and loving. We talked about kids before marriage and she told me that she wanted to wait for a year, so we did that. The problem is, my wife does not follow through with her promises. I work and I don't really want her working. She put up a fight with me and told me that she will work one day. I told her that the year is over and we are going to have a child now. She keeps refusing and telling me she's going to wait a bit longer. She came from a family who were a little violent and very rude. She curses too much and gets mad when I tell her to never curse in front of me. She sits at home all day, cleans the house but never cooks until I get home. She starts cooking as soon as I get home and I don't have anything to eat when I come back. I work a tough job and I do expect to come back to dinner already done and put out. She sits on her phone all day and whines about life and how she wishes she was never born. I'm tired of her childish behavior. She keeps telling me that her family does this and that but I am not her mom or dad, I am her husband and I'm responsible for her and her actions now. I keep telling her that I'm her family now but she keeps putting up fights with everything I say. She never agrees and she keeps telling me that 

    15 AnswersMarriage & Divorce2 days ago
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