I am not going to answer your question, but just share my own, which I just found out tonite,, around 8. She was in the dining room where our work laptop is. she was watching cartoon porn.
Actually I just found out this morning from the web history that she went to cartoon porn website. I didnt say anything. I thought I'd wait for her dad to come home and talk about it and discuss what would be the best thing to do or say.
But then as I passed her by I caught her. She was so pale.
I feel sorry for her. She might think I'd be mad or upset. But i didnt.
I told her nicely to get off the laptop and so she went to the couch, I talked to her. Trying to hold my tears so hard. When finally she's also crying.
I went to her and hug her. And then we prayed together.
I express myself in our prayers.
I told God how confusing it is also for me which certainly is for her.
But we thanks to God for His blessing of nature that just came to my daughter's life.
We asked HIM to lead us thru.
After that, we just hugged.
I told her she doesnt have to say anything rite now. She was crying heavily !!
She said sorry, and I said no, don't say sorry, it's normal and natural, it's a bless from God.
But I would ask fogiveness to God for watching the porn, I said, because it is not for kids.
Anyway, did I mention she is just 10?