Those with asperger partners/kids/friends etc etc..............................
obviously the negatives are hard to live with sometimes, and they can make you frustrated, angry, upset, hurt etc etc,
do you tend to try to accept thats just what aspergers is?
but find you still get hurt, frustrated etc, 'feel' what they say and do, learn, and then move on
just , shrug and move on right away?
ive thought that myself too
that because you cant 'see' this illness, and because they can blend well they 'look' normal, that it must be even harder on them because they are then expected to then BE normal
and when they are ,well, asperger, people dont understand it
and think they are being rude or mean cos they are rude or mean, rather than being an asperger
even knowing and understanding aspergers, as a non aspie, im not sure it makes it 'easier' to experience an asperer BE an asperger
hahha, wow what a great friend you are
and its so cool you have such a realistic but humourous way of looking at things,
she muscles, hehehe
great answers eveyrone, thank you as always
i get what your saying, but it is a disability,
fine, illness wasnt the best literal word, but i dont claim to be perfectly literate
i know einsten is rumoured to be asperger, as are many other famous geniuses
im aware of that, and i think its great
but thats the point, we know the positives of a genius mind
but there are also the negatives
and thats what im talking about