My boyfriends ex girlfriend is messaging me and cussing at me?
My boyfriends ex girlfriend is crazy. She is still on him and she tried to add me as a friend on facebook and when I declined the request she sent me a message and she was like
"Listen honestly, you're a dumb ******* *****. I don't know why your still with John, he doesn't love you, he still calls me and we hang out regularly when you're not around so get over yourself and let him be. Him and I were together for 2 years and you come in out of no where and think you can take him from me? Like your retarted.. you ruined my life and I swear you're gonna catch it if you don't break up with him soon. pce *****
PS if you wanna solve this in person you know where I live, come holler at me."
I know they don't talk anymore, she just wants to make me think they do so I can break up with him, what do I do?
- 10 years agoFavorite Answer
Be very careful, tell your bf what she said. I've seen girls murder each other over stuff like this. Block her, avoid her at all costs.
- 4 years ago
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/zNG6L
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
- 4 years ago
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
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