How can I stop being standoffish?

My friend and I were talking about why I never talk "talk" to guys and stuff...and she ended up saying the reason why is basically because I'm standoffish and that I need to make myself more approachable. The thing is I don't feel like I am (at least I try not to be) Yes, I acknowledge the fact that I am shy and basically turn into a mute when it comes to talking to guys. But at the same time, guys never really come and approach me to talk. They're always hitting on her. What can I do?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Smile and say "hello"...

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