At what age do men stop acting like boys? My husband is 46 and still acting like a 20 year old. He films himself at work with his 20 year?
workmates, acting silly, doing seductive, immature things for Instagram to get other women's attention. I thought, by age 46 that would all stop. He says the girls love it and it makes him feel good. I'm starting to think he hasn't grown up.
- FoofaLv 76 months ago
I think you're probably right, apparently you married a bit of a manchild.
- Now NowLv 57 months ago
What's mature according to you?
- 7 months ago
Let me know where he works. Sounds a great place! better than the females I work with!
- Bent SnowmanLv 77 months ago
Obviously, he's an odd person. How many other 46 year old men do you know besides your husband who do that? You mean why does your husband do this, not "men". Keep perspetive.
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- Common SenseLv 77 months ago
His maturity level is not so much in question as him seeking and enjoying the attention of younger women. Mid life crisis is more like it.
- PearlLv 77 months ago
sorne never do like youre finding out
- LiverGirl98Lv 77 months ago
Maturity is subjective and what you see as appropriate behavior, may not necessarily be shared by your husband. If this behavior is an outlet for your husband and makes him feel good, be open to exploring what aspect of this you do not like. If you feel this behavior encroaches on your marriage, have a conversation.
- Anonymous7 months ago
it depends, people become mature at different times, maybe you should talk to him about it
- JanetLv 77 months ago
Growing up does not preclude doing senseless silly things.
Growing up has to do with:
- keeping you word
- being honest (with yourself as well as in all other ways)
- learning to open to and work with your inner emotions, so that you don't screw up your life with anger or impulsiveness or fear
- learning to care about others
- learning to accept yourself.
- learning not to judge others
Nothing in what you have said here indicates that he has NOT grown up.
I see nothing wrong with doing things that make us AND others happy. Perhaps his seductive behaviors make you feel immature .. in which you need to grow up.
But some people never do grow up.
- ?Lv 77 months ago
Some of them never do.