J asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 9 months ago

How come my sister doesn’t really like or is close to my husband for friendship?

My sister and I are adults in our thirties. Well we aren’t very close siblings since our late teens due to different personalities and family drama. Anyways, we only text message each other every few months and see each other once a year at Christmas. But anyways, I got married a year ago but have known my husband for 5 years. Well my sister isn’t so close to my husband and she never buys him a gift for his birthday or doesn’t really have much to say about him when they are together at Christmas. It’s almost as if they are just acquaintances but nothing deep ever happens in terms of conversation.

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  • Anonymous
    9 months ago
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    You aren't close to your sister, why do you think she'd be close to your husband?

    "we only text message each other every few months and see each other once a year at Christmas" Sounds like nothing deep ever happens in terms of conversation with you and your sister either, so why would she with your husband?

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    I wouldn't sweat that. It's when Sis is TOO close to hubby that you have to worry.

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  • 9 months ago

    maybe shes jealous

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  • Kathy
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    You need to talk with her about it, to find out why.

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  • Anonymous
    9 months ago

    If you don't know your own sister or haven't take the time to ask her, how are we supposed to guess?

    Maybe they are having an intense affair behind your back and playing it cool in front of you?

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