Anonymous
Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 month ago

How can women/girls physically enjoy ?

having intercourse with men? I know that it’s prone to happen as part of our nature, but how can you subject yourself to being impaled and roughly physically handled and gain pleasure from it. That seems so painful and awful

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  • shroud
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    sounds like your only info to real sex is porn videos, a guy can only treat you the way you let him, for most people real sex is softer slower and not demeaning of the woman

  • mayona
    Lv 4
    1 month ago

    It might be that your bf was rough the first time you experienced vaginal sex and the hurt was a feeling which overtook your pleasure but with more experience and adjusting the sexual positions you can enjoy this pleasurable act.  Sex is not hurtful its enjoyable.

  • Edna
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    You have a lot of misconceptions. Intercourse is NOT "painful and awful"; and during it, you do NOT feel that you're being "impaled and roughly handled". Try it --- you'll like it!!

  • Jim
    Lv 4
    1 month ago

    You'll see once you have sex how amazing it is. It may hurt the first time but unless your partner is selfish and careless it shouldn't hurt

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  • 1 month ago

    Not all sex with guys is like that. Guys can be really gentle

  • D_21
    Lv 5
    1 month ago

    It is not always rough. There are many ways for sex like there are many ways for dancing. There are body parts that help to make it pleasurable. The clitoris for example helps for women to enjoy.

    It is true that it can happen in a way that hurts or causes discomfort. This is not how it is meant to be though. When two people who are considerate of each other take their time with it there is no pain.

    Though you may think of it as "prone to happen," you do not have to have sex at all. Your body is your own. You choose what you do with it. Whether you seek pleasure or pain.  The choice is yours to decide if you want to explore your sexuality. You determine how, which way you take on your journey. Your path is yours to forge, and no one else's. Do only what you wish.

  • MissA
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    In much the same way that drinking a nice glass of water when you're thirsty is not the moral equivalent of being waterboarded, TBH.

  • Joe_d
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    I have a small 4" erect penis that I doubt is capable of "impaling" or hurting anyone!  Maybe you are just intimidated by large ones?  As for being "roughly handled", it doesn't happen that way. 

  • Lôn
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Don't knock it until you've tried it!

  • audrey
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It's neither painful or awful. Sex is the most pleasurable thing on the planet.

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