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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 8 months ago

I’m almost 17, my boyfriends almost 20, I’m done w high school in a few months and we want to have a baby..?

Alright so details, I’m finishing high school in a couple months, he has a job, and after high school I’ll be doing cosmetology school, but I’ll be receiving income from my trust fund.  We both feel mentally stable enough for a child, and will be financially stable enough too. if we have all the proper assets to have a child, and my family agrees with my decision, is us having a planned pregnancy at this age okay? I personally feel like it is, but my friend is shaming me for this and making me feel very bad about my decision. Just would like some opinions, and please if possible refrain from being rude. Thanks. 

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  • Anonymous
    5 months ago

    Gov't is killing you with high frequency electricity.Theotokos Virgin Mary gave prayers to "Schema-nun Antonia" on how to save aborted babies from hell. If you pray these prayers diligently, aborted babies are released from hell. On each painted nail there are 40 demons. Smoking is censer to the devil.Using foul language calls upon Pagan deities (aka demons); Holy Spirit departs on 7 meters. People who use drugs see demons who cleverly disguise themselves as ghosts and aliens.America will be last country to switch to Euro (antichrist's world currency). Contraceptives = abortion;using contraceptives for 1 year = 5 aborted kids.Miscarriages happen because of high heels; cesarean because of tight pants (second generation cesarean will be infertile).Unbaptized aborted/miscarried/unborn babies burn in hell for until Final Judgement; if pregnant, keep the kid and deliver at home because kids are chipped using IVs and vaccines in hospitals. Dentists and doctors chip patients secretly. 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It doesn't just have to be during this procedure (could be anything you sign up for or anywhere where there is a secret scanner); biometrics (fingerprints, eyes scan) or getting picture for passport are very dangerous because they could mark you secretly. Gabriel Urgebadze said that they do it on index finger when they scan your finger. Basically, try to avoid new documents at all cost. Police will microchip and isotope ray people on highways. Chipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, green mark by isotope rays is given on forehead/wrist. Food stores will isotope ray people too. Antichrist will also release prisoners to mark people. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell. If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can't track you; burn documents because they're from Satan. The Most Holy Trinity gives you a name during baptism; devil gives an antiname during antibaptism (ex. Social Security Number). People who die with these Satanic documents go to concentration camp in hell to await Final Judgement; once the BEAST Computer is burned down, souls will be released for Final Judgement. That's why you should give back documents of your deceased relatives back to the gov't so that the gov't cancels these digital antichristian names given during antibaptism by the beast system; or just burn these documents because gov't could get upset and could send demons to mark you because of this outright act of defiance. Prophecy from half a millennium ago describes Final Judgement like this: Jesus was very upset with people who had little boards (plastic cards) in their hands because they wanted discount from the antichrist. 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Priests who participate in ecumenism will have Pagans walking on their heads in hell. Arkhimandrite Antonin Kapustin left a prophecy that Church of All Russian Saints in Gorny Monastery, Ein Karem, Israel will be blessed by forerunner of antichrist; Patriarch Kirill of Russia and Mark of Berlin blessed this church in 2007. When priests pray for current gov't (instead of praying for future Tsar),Jesus gets up from His throne and turns His back to them. Forgive me.

    Source(s): Women wear headscarves tied at the front to prevent headaches from sky pushing down and to prevent throat cancer. Mega-tsunami for New York will be 400 meters; then engulfed-in-lava Los Angeles will be flooded too; also, asteroid destroys Gulf of Mexico; only Alaska, Eurasia, and Africa remain (obviously without coasts). 1st big earthquake in Russia; 2nd bigger one in China (will be split in half; radiation!); 3rd biggest will be in the USA (Greek Orthodox monk Elidiy from Africa); forgive me.
  • Edna
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    Graduate from high school, finish your cosmetology course, get married, and then plan a pregnancy. 

  • 8 months ago

    You are too young for that kind of responsibility.  Please wait a few years. 

  • 8 months ago

    Why would you want to have a baby if you're going to cosmetology school? A baby is not a stuffed animal. Babies NEED to be with their mother 24/7, not dropped off at daycare where they get abused. If you are not going to be a stay at home mother, do NOT have children. This is the reason why so many kids today are mentally disturbed. Their mothers allowed the Daycare system to raise them and abuse them 

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  • 8 months ago

    Most who enter into this sort of relationship at 17 greatly lack the common sense they should have been born with although there are always exceptions. If it feels right, it's your life. Follow your feelings, not those of others. Best of luck

  • 8 months ago

    Do you want what's best for your child? Then you wait. Children statistically do better in school and in life when their mother is older. Even waiting until 21 makes a difference. Children also do better when their mother has a career and works, and you need a couple of years after cosmetology school to establish yourself.

    Also, please consider that where you live, having sex with your boyfriend may be considered statutory rape. The baby would be proof of his committing a crime. Anyone could report him. Is that what you want for him?

    Further, a baby costs $5,200 a year, and that doesn't count child care while you work, which can run $1,100 a month or more. Does your trust fund provide that kind of money?

    Your friend is right. The question is whether you're mature enough to see that.

  • 8 months ago

    You have a ton of time for babies but little time to be young and free. Yeah, I think the first night you are up all night, husband isn't sleeping and gets sharp with you with baby puke all over you you might change your mind. It isn't as glamorous as on TV.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    It's not something I would want for myself or my kids. 

     You should get married 1st, at least.  If you 2 can't commit to a marriage you shouldn't be committing to a child.  Also be sure that either his or your job has health insurance.  

    Is your relationship with your bf stable?  A baby is very hard  on a relationship.  Do you have supportive families?  Do you know how to budget and save money for the future?  These are all things you should consider before moving forward with this plan.

  • Tulip
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    What there makes you stable? And who will pay the hospital bill?

  • MissA
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    I mean it's not impossible it will work out for you. Stranger things have certainly happened.

    But the odds are stacked WAY high against you. You guys are young (you, in particular. I kinda have to suspect your BF is either real immature or into very young girls which is going to become a PROBLEM in the very near term once you stop being a very young girl). Your relationship is extremely likely to end in the next year or so, particularly if you throw the burden of being barely-educated and broke parents to a new baby on top of it.

    Anyway what's your rush? You've got a good twenty years of fertility ahead of you. Why not actually learn what life is like as an adult and have some good times and then become a mother once you're a bit more stable?

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