Can you experiment with your other male friends and not be gay?

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  • 8 months ago

    A lot of boys/men experiment - it's one of the ways you figure out what your sexuality is.

    Obviously if you keep 'experimenting' then you are most likely either bi or gay.

  • 8 months ago

    That is common in high school, although one of the partners usually really is gay.

  • 8 months ago

    Yes. I do this all the time and they swear they are not gay.

  • 8 months ago

    Of course not, you wouldn't even be thinking about that if you weren't gay.

    You can be gay before you've even engaged in sexual activity, male and female is the perfect match.

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  • reme_1
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    Experiment is a one time thing, maybe twice. After that it is not experimenting, it is a real desire. You are gay.

  • Sky
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    Yes, of course.  Being gay means feeling romantic and physical attraction only for the same sex and having no such attraction for the opposite sex.  Two male friends can experiment, engage in whatever sexual activities they want, enjoy it, and repeat it as often as they like without feeling any actual attraction to each other or any other guy.  Their activity does not make them gay.  It's nothing more than a friends-with-benefits arrangement.  The same goes for two female friends experimenting and sharing benefits.  It's all about taking care of each other's sexual needs and getting one's own needs taken care of, as well as trying new things to see what various activities are like.  I for one am not gay and feel zero attraction for the same sex, yet I've had sex several times with a same sex friend, and enjoyed it.  It was fun, gave us new experiences, and took care of each other's needs.

  • 8 months ago

    No (well gay or bisexual)

    There is absolute no reason to experiment with other guys. Surly you dont live in a female free city.

  • Anonymous
    8 months ago

    you're supergay

  • Anonymous
    8 months ago

    You are bisexual. That is why you get the thought of sexually experimenting with male friends.

    Normal straight men don't even get these thoughts.

    Sexuality IS about sex. You don't have sex with a man and still call yourself straight.

  • 8 months ago

    Of course, millions of straight men have done precisely that. Sexuality is not about sex.

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