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Anonymous asked in Society & CultureReligion & Spirituality · 1 month ago

Sex is a fact of life adults have sex.... but the idea of sex bothers me and it makes me upset...?

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  • 1 month ago
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    Having sex isn't mandatory. You don't have to, if you don't want to. Being single and not having sex..? Is easy. Finding a romantic relationship that doesn't involve sex, if you're so inclined..? Is a lot harder. However..? Romantic asexual people exist. People who don't want to have sex, or can't have sex, for whatever reason, yet choose to stay together..? Exist. Ever visited AVEN? It's a really great website + resource about asexuality! And it also has a really awesome, super chill and welcoming forum. Where you will be greeted with lots and lots of cake. :)

    Anyway... You could be asexual. But by the sound of it, it COULD also be that you're sexually traumatized. Maybe you've been abused in the past, for instance..? In which case, it is possible to work through that in therapy. Do recommend. Although also..? It is perfectly possible to be both a trauma survivor AND asexual! Just so you know. And that is also 100% valid, and okay.

    Source(s): Panromantic grey-asexual, here to represent.
  • 1 month ago

    Get competent therapy and then marry a nice person of the opposite sex. Then learn to enjoy sex.

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  • 1 month ago

    Blame your ridiculous belief system.

    The Christer™ is a sexually obsessed-degenerate; it'd call a knotted rope, Obscene.

    Its mind is saturated with GUILT and FEAR.

    It is programmed to believe it is a sick, evil, depraved, wicked person born of and in sin and forever a sinner; it even refers to any sex as fornication.

    What hope has it for any type of normality after such negative programming?

    It's a wonder more are not crippled by this insanity.

    ~

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  • 1 month ago

    Perhaps you are asexual? Nothing wrong with that  if thats what you are...

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Sex is the worst thing to happen to humanity. It is evil 

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  • 1 month ago

    Then, you are not ready to have sex.

    That's fine.

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    Regards,

    John Popelish

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  • 1 month ago

    Then don't have sex. No one is forcing you, or at least I hope not.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Maybe you should talk to someone about that. There's a deeper reason to be addressed.. Good luck! 

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  • Retief
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    1 month ago

    That isn't a question.

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  • 1 month ago

    If you say so. All caused by religion by the way.

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