Should I try contacting her? ?
My former best friend and I were like sisters since we were kids. We stopped talking about 3 years ago when we were 25, it was a mutual decision. From my perspective, i felt that she was possessive eg. She consistently started an argument with me when I would go out with friends other than her. She also got angry over everything that was not her business eg. I didn’t break up with my boyfriend when she told me to. I’m sure she has a different side to this story but this is my perspective. Lately I’ve been thinking about her a lot, I do still care but I don’t want to get hurt anymore. Should I text her? I was thinking just “hey! How have you been?” - but I realise this could seem weird after almost 3 years of not talking.