My husband calls me a name sometimes like dumb idiot???
How can I solve this sometime his rude too. Is this normal In marriage .
- 1 month ago
No. Not normal. Very hurtful and abusive.
- 1 month ago
It's not normal. It's verbally abusive and demeaning. Tell him on his face that he should stop calling you that and how it makes you feel. You will appreciate if he could explain why he calls you that then two of you can start to discuss the solution.
- ProfGene.TogolotLv 71 month ago
No that is abusive behavior and you should not tolerate it. Tell him to stop doing it or you will leave him or if he agrees maybe get a marriage counselor.
- YahWho KnowsLv 41 month ago
lucky its only sometimes..you seem like a dumb idiot all the time... keep this husband the next wont be so nice
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- KTJoeLv 71 month ago
Not normal...Let family members know for support, than by yourself seek couples counseling, go alone.
- AnonymousLv 41 month ago
Put a stop to that quick smart. Next time he wants sex, ask him how he could lower himself to have sex with a dumb idiot? AND DON'T GIVE IT TO HIM! If he can't treat you with respect because he loves you and you (and everyone else!) deserves it - hit him HARD where he will really notice!!
- Anonymous1 month ago
I don't think it's normal if it happens all the time. I think it's understandable in a heated moment / argument. I admit, I have called my husband a few names during those times, and he has periods where he refers to me as "skid mark" (and thinks it's funny. No idea why) and literally says I'm "mean" every-single-day. I don't understand it, but do think it could be much worse. So if you think it's excessive, it's an issue and is not normal
- HelenLv 71 month ago
Name calling can happen in an argument. People say things they don't mean in the heat of the moment.
However if this happens on a regular basis and without apology, this is emotional abuse and not normal.
- SummervilleLv 61 month ago
Divorce him immediately
- JesereLv 71 month ago
No, that's abuse.............