Why is it these days it is a disgrace to be a virgin?

Seventy years ago it was a scandal if you weren't until you were well into your 20s. People now seem so anxious to lose it.

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  • 1 month ago
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    If you're asking for yourself, I suggest you to mix in different circles. Virginity is something precious and not to be 'given away'  You can lose your virginity only once - do it when it means something!

  • 1 month ago

    Remaining or not remaining  a Virgin is freedom of choice. Therefore, choose what is  best for YOU. Critics be damned it's not their life. I'd say people find it weird because it is rare anymore. That, and everyone knows that your first time is a let  down. Putting  SO much importance on it is often psychologically  damaging. Not to mention it  as  is the case with overly religious people, it can stunt your maturity/growth. The short answer? JUST.DO.YOU.

  • 1 month ago

    IT is not a disgrace, it is only that in some rather low class circles it seems to the the custom to no be a virgin by mid teens.

  • 1 month ago

    Part of the new culture of intersectionality is a great deal of tolerance for and encouragement of acts of degeneracy.

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  • Paul
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Actually it is a disgrace not to be a virgin, if you are not married. This called fornication, which is a violation of God's will.

  • rick
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Seventy years ago, I was 13. I was in my first year of middle school. If you were a virgin, you would receive plenty of ridicule. We had a lot of pregnant 13 year olds in seventh grade.

  • 1 month ago

    I DO NOT THINK SO DEAR...RELAX..

  • Zirp
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It isn't.

    Those who claim it is are either trying to manipulate you, or people who (were) stopped being one too early and envy you

  • 1 month ago

    No.  It's a scandal if you only associate with tarts.

  • Da
    Lv 5
    1 month ago

    This is not true in all countries 

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