Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 month ago

I'm always the first person to text my friend, but he's never the first to text me. Should I keep in touch?

He never talks or text me UNLESS I contact him first. Otherwise, he probably would never think twice about contacting me.

2 Answers

  • 1 month ago

    if u need this friendship so u contact first. if u have plenty of other friends who reciprocate - then no. u choose what u want. i had friends like that, 2, i got them later in life after i already had friends from childhood and husband and children. so whn i noticed i was initiating contact all the time i stopped. so friendship faded and i do not miss it because i already had friends and family. but if u re lonely and do not know what to do on weekends maybe u should initiate all the contact if u re getting something out of the relationship, like going out and such

  • 1 month ago

    Easy way to find this out is to stop texting and see what happens.  That should give you your answer.

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